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Im 13 (female) So...there's this guy. ANd i REALLY like him...or at least i used to. Hes really cool and we're friends and stuff...see....i told him that i liked him...but it turns out that the same day...he had a friend fix him up with another girl......and so now he thinks that the only reason i talk to him is because i like him and he barely talks to me and....and I owuldnt mind just being friends with him, but hes being really mean to me...what should i do?
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your homework.


okay. im 13 and theres a guy, named chad, whos 14. we went out for a while, almost 5 months. and then had this really strange period where he was acting really weird around me and when i confronted him about it. he said hed talk more. and i was like okay. the next day, though, he broke up with me. everybody that knows me and also him said he scrweed me over cause he knew id brake up with him. anyways, i went out with this guy named tyler after for only about 2 weeks, when we decided we were better friends. now chad keeps telling me he likes me again and i dont know whether to go out with him again or not. its complicated because i know hes a good boyfriend and all but its almost like he has 2 sides. like one side of him talks to me, and treats me like his girlfriend. [hugs, holding my hand, flirting like mad, etc.] and the other side of him is totally weird. he wont talk to me, he talks about girls he used to like, and walks away from me. im so confused because i like him a lot but it seems once we've been going out for a month or so turns in the bad side of like 5 of the 7 days of the week and i hate that. i apoligize for the length of this. and i hope someone has advice, experience, etc. thanks in advance. (link)
you're 13. if you find it THAT important to even HAVE a bf, then there's no reason why not. so he can be a little distant.. so what? you're not his wife. he doesnt answer to you.

and when he does get in a bad mood, stay on him. if he wants to break up with ya, dont let him, get mad. hit him, that sounds fun. he seems like a little chicken hearted puke to me who need someone to take control of him since he cant control himself.


there is this guy i met last summer at camp, and my group which was a co-ed group consisted of him. and he's really annoying me like on myspace when i put the bullentin boyfriend application a couple of days ago he said he was attracted to me/liked me and another application i posted a couple months before he said he liked me, and im #3 on his top 8 friends, but on his bday a couple of weeks ago he asked me for money hes like k if you want to give me anything give me money cause if you don't mind i want some money for my bday and i thought it was completeley rude, and to tell you the truth he's not that attractive and personality wise he is obnoxious and annoying. i haven't spoken to hiim in a long time which is good for me, but his headlines on myspace are also strange like "She's so hot" etc and i want to also ask him why he has these weird headlines by sending him a message but do you think thats too rude. But what should i do about the other part.
note- at camp he was stalking me everywere i went grrr.
thanks
~*~Brianna~*~ (link)
ignore him. that simple.


I went to visit a guy that I'm friends with at his work. When he saw me his face lit up and he started winking at me. He was talking to another guy who I remembered from a party. I started talking to this guy and called him by his name. Anyways, I new that my friend had to get back to work so I said goodbye to both of them. The guy that I didnt know very well smiled and said goodbye, but then my friend glared at me and said BYE! angrily.
Does this mean that my friend was jealous I was talking to the other guy? He's not my bf so maybe his feelings run deeper for me than I thought? What do you think? (link)
maybe? ask him


Do guys just want girls who are hot? Or something more? (link)
more. way more. looks are the first thing you see before you know the person. they are important to a degree. but in love... "love is blind."


ohk so im not the worlds greatest dancer, are there anythings i can do to become a better dance cause when i go to parties i hate it cause i dance but i cant dance i look like a fool. so if you have any tips please help me im desperate!!! (i mean like dancing at a party not a dance class) (link)
popping is the secret. it can make anything look flashy. any sudden, jerking stops in a fluid motion is a pop.


Ok, yet another contiuation of the singing question. I'm 13 in the 8th grade. My trio is in my grade, so we can't sing any superly andvanced music, like Whitney Houston without sounding strange. Any inspirational songs eveyone would like INCLUDING the link so I can listen to the song before choosing would be nice. Anyone who gives me a nice, not way to hard, inspirational song and a link to listen to the song will get a definte 5, because I know it's hard to find all this, but it really would help me a lot. Thank you so much! (link)
all 4 one - i swear. dont know what to tell you about a link.. not inspirational though


I'm 13 and about to audition for a musical. We're supposed to prepare a song and a monologue. I've gone through an array of broadway songs. Finally, I listened to "Wishing You Were Somehow Hear Again" from the Phantom of the Opera. It's beautiful! But before I get the sheet music, I need to know; is it a difficult piece? Vocally demanding? I'm in a very advanced chorus, which means that I can sing a lot, but there's no real way of telling whether this song is too overreaching or not just by listening, you know? If anyone has had any experience with this piece, could I have a few tips?

And PLEASE do not say "go see a vocal teacher/go take a voice lesson/idk lol hope i helped." Even though I'm in an advanced chorus, I can't afford a voice lesson. I know that puts me at a disadvantage, but that's JUST LIFE.
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think of me from the phantom of the opera if you're female, point of no return in you're male. nothing from phantom of the opera is difficult.


here is an easy five if u can tell me how to download music and where to get the music from for my mp3 player.i want free music and i just got my mp3 player today so im new to this.
thanks! (link)
soulseek www.slsknet.org


can any 1 tell me whats the best free music download site?
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the one and only correct answer is soulseek

www.slsknet.org


Does anyone know of any sites where I can find sweat shirts or hoodies of bands besides their own sites? Some of the bands I want are:

Underoath
Fall Out Boy
From First to Last
Hawthorne Heights
All-American Rejects
Taking Back Sunday

Those are just some. But if you know of any websites that you can buy band clothing from besides their own sites id greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much you guys! (link)
oh god... why?


I agree with you

im adding you as my favorite columnists

im bAhAmAmA0250 (link)
well that's neat. even though i have no idea what that means. i joined this site all of 30 minutes ago cuz someone from wyht sent me over. i cant even say i'll even come back for sure (but its addicting so...)


so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
"only 33%" thats 66 proof and more than enough to get a little girl fucked up. good thing you were a "good girl" and didn't smoke though *rolls eyes*

you should be ashamed of yourself. this is how date rape is made. and as fortunate as it is, the difference between some grown ass woman getting fuckin the ass in a dark alley, and date rape, is it takes 2. you have every right to be ashamed of yourself and i hope to god you've learned your lesson.

i didnt even bother reading the other answers, but if they're sugar coated at all, then you should be ashamed of yourself too for helping this girl become another statistic.

*** in response to your feedback, he didnt poor alcohol down your throat. you should be old enough to make your own choices. dont hate me because of a mistake you made. hate yourself just enough to learn your lesson***


Everynight for 2 weeks straight I have had this dream, can you tell me what you think it means?

My 2 friends and me are walking up a beatan path/trail in the woods and its kinda stormy, we are headed to the top of the mountain. When we get to the top of the mountain I see my ex, so I walk over there to talk to him. . Then all of a sudden out of the woods a dark evil shadow pushes him off the cliff. I look down the side of the cliff on some rocks and he is layin there blood surrounding his head. I scream, and the proceed to climb down the side of the cliff and go over to wear his body is. I put my hand under his head and blood is all over my hand. I lean over and hold him while crying and screaming while his blood is dripping all over me. I lean over again to kiss his bloody lips. I kiss him while holding him close. I wake up screaming & crying. Whats so weird is I could swore I almost taste blood in my mouth. (link)
every night for the past 9 years i've drempt about the undead. i wouldnt rely too much on reoccuring dreams, or i have a planet to save...


I determined to find some new bands to like, I don't really want any mainstream bands just like, got-to-their-shows bands. I don't really, like much emo and I don't like any skater/incucbus/audioslave type music. I am into punkish music and music with synthesizers but not techno. My favorite artists are Bjork, Polyphonic Spree, Aquabats, Me First and The Gimme Gimmes, Cranberries, Len, and Electric Light Orchestra. I am cool with Ska as well. Just give me a list of bands that I could listen to and I'll be satisfied. (link)
horse the band. they're a mix between old school hardcore (a derivitive of true punk) with synth. described as "atari-core"

straight punk, all i can say is death by stereo.

for a happier sound, hard to find, but go for zolof the rock and roll destroyer.


okay i recently graduated from a modeling school and would love to continue practicing what they teach, but i dont know any good songs that i could walk to..if anyone knows what the manequin is then music for that would be great to...if you have no idea what im talking about...Techo/Trance music...anything that sounds odd would be great! thnkx!!!! (link)
if you go to the armani exchange website, they actually sell albums of just waht you're lookin for.


Are you trying to stop young people from doing things?


or what are you trying to stop? (link)
yeah, youth today is outta control and it goes to disgusting lengths. shit, you're younger than my little sister (unless your bdays in the next 2 days) im a puritan.. also a hypocrite. im 20 and have already had 2 kids, 2 different mothers, and still never married. i never said do what i do, i said do what i say.

anyway, good luck with your list. make it rhyme and sing it and you got a fuckin GIFT my friend.


Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one. (link)
anita ward - ring my bell
black dahlia murder - miscarriage
arsis - face of my innocence (you'll find this on my myspace which is linked through my profile)
i dont even know what you listen to.. shit..
darkest hour - low
usher - nice and slow (not new, probably around before you haha)
coheed and cambria - welcome home


what exactly do u mean its a disease?

i dont do that

i just thought it was random

how old are you (link)
20.

and good.


I have a 4 yr old son with a guy that I am still trying to let go of. He has a girlfriend which I am still trying to accept. The hardest part is that he is constantly around to visit his son. When he comes around she calls his phones, he has come up here with hickeys on his neck. I have really tried to ignore it all despite how much it hurts. But 2 days ago I had enough and just stop speaking to him. I am still not speaking to him. I know it is childish but I don't know how else to handle it. He is no longer my boyfriend so he has the right, but what else can I do to make it stop hurting? How can I maintain a healthy friendship without letting my jealousy get in the way? (link)
dont talk to him if you dont want. you have no more obligation to him than he does to you. you have something more important to worry about: your son.

you have no right to interfere with his life anymore (as hard as that is..), he has no right to rub it in your face if he can prevent it. but your son has every right to see him. dont forget that.




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