I dont really know what to say about myself. But, I guess I'll just say some stuff about me.
I'm 15, and my name is Melissa.
I'm 5,4 and 105 pounds!
I have brown hair, green/gray/gold eyes, LONG legs, and freckles! But not alot of freckles...more like a bandit mask of them. Lol, like in the shape of a raccoon mask.
I go to CAT pickering, and while there i take Culinary Arts. Then after that, I go back to Downingtown East High School for the rest of the day. I LOVE IT!! I only take like, THREE classes a day and i'm in tenth grade!
I love all music, except for creepy country, (no offense to all you country lovers out there!) and I love to draw!!
I'm not really punk, preppy, goth, or anything like that...i'm more like....me? lol, ANYWAY,
That's all I have to say!
If you need help, feel free to ask me. I dont mind answering your ?'s! Or if you just want to talk, my AIM name is Samarawntstoast. IM me if you want to!
Peace!
~Melissa~
E-mail: tdrod4@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
AIM: samarawntstoast
MSN: firefairy141@hotmail.com
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I have over 400 magazines, i collect EVERY tabloid, and have a subscription with seventeen. Plus i buy cosmopolitan, and cosmogirl. The problem is i don't know what to do with them all. My room isn't small but right now most of the are stacked on top of a stand and i'm scared it's going to break. I just don't know what to do with them all, and i don't want to get rid of them and don't think i'll ever stop collecting them.
x Magazine Addict (link)
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Actually, hun, Truth_Only is right.
Even if your house doesn't seem like it has bugs in it, it does. Your bed has a million bugs on the pillow alone. Its all microscopic and everything, but they are still there.
Also there is this bug called the silverfish that lives in paper. They live in books and magazines that aren't opened a lot. So if you have magazines that are stacked up and everything, and you don't read the bottom ones, you could have silver fish and other bugs living in them.
You have to be really careful, because it can be really un-hygenic.
I think you were unfair in giving the other person a one. You do have bugs in your house. You just cant see them. Dont assume any diffrently
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what would i be if i wore skinny jeans, converse, random t-shirts ex. wet seal shirts and skate shirts?? (link)
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O.o hun, dont ask about stereotyping. You'd just be whatever you felt like being for the day. You dont have to wear certain types of clothes.
(And yet, i wear exactly what you are describing heehe, and im considered Skater...But i do skate...so if you call yourself skater and you dont skate, you'd be known as POSER)
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i want to get my eyebrows done. but the problem is my mom thinks my eyebrow are fine and she won't let me tweez, thread or even wax them! what should i do to convice her to let me get my eyebrows done? (link)
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I had the same problem as you when i was younger. My mother was way to controlling. So instead of continuously trying to convince her, i just started tweezing them little by little. Eventually she noticed, and she didn't even get mad! She said that they looked good. Just make sure that you dont go to thin. Also if you want to get them waxed, do it at first for a special event. (such as dances, partys, family events), and after that just keep doing it. Make sure you NEVER go to thin! If you have any more quistions, feel free to ask me
~Melissa♥~
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what does popping your cherry mean? i mean i have a "clue" but its not specific. (link)
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It means when your a virgin, and you have sex for the first time...
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ok so i have a sweating problem under my arms.
like REALLY badddd really really really really really really badddd. like ew i can't wear like anything besides black or really baggy T-shirts.
because im really self consious about it.
i've heard a lot about certain-dri the antipersperant stuff and i really wanna get it, im just embarassed to ask my mom cause she doesn't know about the problem (my mom isn't one of those psyco ladies or anything, she's like a normal all american stay at home mom) because once again im very embarassed and self concious about it.
so my questions are:
1)how should i ask my mom to get it without being embarassed?
2)If i get it, when should i put it on, i know at night but like afterrrr i shave or before? after shower? before? i need any advice you can give me
sorry this was soooooo long, but i really wanna know..
=] =] =] =] =] =] =]
thankss.
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Well, for one, i use Certain Dri, and it works totally.
To ask your mom, all you have to do, is tell her about your problem, tell her how it affects you, and that you really dont like it. She'll definitly get it for you, you dont have to be worried about that.
Also, you can only put it on right before you go to sleep. It closes up your pores at night, so you dont sweat during the day
^^ goodluck!
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my sister is a bitch...she's 10 and i'm 14 my parents always pick her side and like her better they say they don't but they do...all of them are being bitchy...my sister makes stupid and unneeded remarks..like if i do something she says you better and it makes me mad because she does it all the time and she even hits me and scratches me...and goes and tells i started it then my parents get mad at me be cause they think i started it and i hit her....and then i show the scratches and hits she does to me they don't say anything...it bothers the crap out of me..i can't stand it...wat can i do to make my sister stop!! (link)
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Well, i'm sorry to say this, but parents are like that. They love to baby the youngest, and its just because they know their not going to have anymore children. I would suggest that next time, instead of going to your parents after the conflict, ignore your sister, and go straight to them. She'll most likely be so mad that your ignoring her, that she'll follow you. After you find your parents, just sit down and tell them, that you feel like their favoriting your sister. Dont let them end the conversation, just keep telling them of all the things she does. Make sure that they understand before you let the conversation drop. Everytime your sister attacks you, just hold her hands away, and call your parents. You cant get in trouble for making sure that she cant hurt you.
I hope i helped a little.
Good luck
From,
The middle child
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What do girls do when they flirt? like how can you tell when they are flirting or just being a friend? any girls out there who can answer this quesition? how do you flirt? i want to know cause i like 2 people and i sometimes think that they are fliriting with me but i'm not sure. thanks!!!!! (link)
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Well, when a girl flirts, she may touch your arm, or give you like...the most random hugs in the world. She'll laugh at anything you say, or she may get mad at you for no reason. If she does get mad at you, it'll be over somthing stupid, and she'll say stuff like, OMG, YOUR SO MEEEEAN! in like...a really high voice. Girls just get like...really attentive, and touchy-ish...yeah..^^
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On July 24, I had a procedure where I was put to sleep for over 5 hours. Since then, I have not had my period. I am now about two weeks late. I am a virgin so there is no way I could be pregnant. Does anyone know if this could be a side effect of anesthesia?
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The same thing happened to me when i had my appendix out.
It is a side affect from the ansthetic, and your period will probably be a bit irregular for a while.
You'll also probably miss your period this month.
^^ i say, ENJOY IT WHILE YOU CAN! lol, i know i did.
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My friend told me he started smoking weed so I want to know how bad it is. Is smoking weed considered a drug? And is it worse then ciggarettes? And is it addictive? Any more info about it would be appreciated! (link)
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Smoking weed is incredibly addictive. Its just as bad as ciggeretes, and can kill you. While people are high, they can become emotianlly unstable, and do things that they normally wouldn't do.
Yes, weed is a drug, and an illegal one at that. Its illegal to buy, sell, and grow in the United States.
You really need to help your friend, because i've had friends that have been shipped off across the country, because of smoking weed. And i havn't seen them since. Its not fun.
Please please please, tell someone you can trust about this, because keeping it a secret is only going to hurt your friend
Much love
~Melissa~
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Lately when I wake up from sleep or a small nap.. my mouth tastes all gross. I get bad breathe and it feels like something gross is all over my teeth and the back of my mouth.
What's wrong?
[I do brush my teeth twice a day. I use mouthwash and I floss too.]
So I dont know why I have to have a disgusting mouth everytime I wake up. (link)
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sadly, this is called morning breath, and yes, it is gross. So, ^^ no matter what, your going to have it when you wake up, so you might as well just brush your teeth every morning, and prepare for the next day of yucky-ness.
lol, but dont worry about it, everyone has this.
Much love
~Melissa~
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http://img197.exs.cx/img197/8117/rock28uv.png
i was wondering if anyone knew
what game that came from? (link)
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heh, pokemon!!!!!! lol, ummm, it comes from pokemon...^^ sapphire i think. heh, sorry if i'm wrong
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um im 14/f, && my boyfriend just started fingering me. sometimes he fixes his boxers because of well ____ something. anyways, im scared if he was doing it too me, and somehow when he fixed his boxers he may have gotten some sperm on it and then when he fingered me, he got me pregnent, only because i dont have my period, and i was due a week ago, and also i feel sick alot lately. PLEASE help, im begging you. im really really nervous. please help im really scared. (link)
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Well, first off, yes, it is possible for you to become pregnant this way, but less likely, because the sperm count on his fingers, will be MUCH less then if it was actually inserted in you.
You are probably late for your period, because you are stressing about it. ^^ that does happen, so try to calm down. If you dont get it this whole month, then i would suggest going and getting a home precnancy test.
After you get the result of that, you should take the nessesary actions. If its negative, then YAY, but if its not, you should call your doctor, and talk to your parents.
I really hope this works out for you.
Much love,
~Melissa~
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I have two former friends who (in my opinion) seriously abuse their cat. "Tammy" will grab the cat by the back legs and spin it around, set it on the floor and flip it in circles, chase it around the house, pull it by its tail when it tries to get away, etc. She's 21, so she's not a kid at all. With her boyfriend, they will put the cat in a pillowcase a breathe lungfulls of marijuana smoke in on it. When they have parties, they will "pass the cat." Everyone in at the party will take the joint and the bagged cat, and on every exhale breathe their smoke into the cat's bag. This will go on for an hour or two before they free the cat. This is just what they do in front of other people.
I can only see where I have there options here, each with problems.
1) Call the police.
2) Break into their house and steal the cat.
3) Do nothing.
I don't want to call the police, because I smoke weed and so do a lot of my friends. Used to, if you got caught in my town you just went to jail. Now you reduce your sentence with every fellow pot head you turn in, all the way up to having no arrest record if you turn in enough people.
I don't want to break in just because...well...it's wrong, I guess. And I really want to do something to help the cat. I've already tried talking to them about it, and it doesn't help.
I would really appreciate any other suggestions, or help picking which option is right. Thanks! (link)
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you should call the spca. Because its not the police, and you can remane anonymous, you wont have to worry about them finding out about the weed.
All you have to do is call them, inform them of where its happening, and whats going on. They will send out someone to go retrieve the cat, and they will never, tell anyone that it was you who turned it in. You dont even have to tell them your name or anything.
I really hope that you help this animal! T_T i love cats!
Good luck,
~Melissa~
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15 year old female.
I`m sure you all get alot of questions like this and I`m sorry but I need help =)
This is going to be my first year of highschool, freshmen. I`m scared out of my mind. One of my best friends whom I`v gone to school with for 9 years is going to a different school. Will I lose her friendship ? My sister just graduated from taht school and she was known as a slut, and to cheat on her boyfriends.. am I going to have that same stuff said about me because I`m her sister ? I`m so scared I`m going to get lost, 3 floors and I can`t make it to the school tour (I`ll be in New York City on vacation). How easy is it to get lost ? I`m in a super high science class, and I`m not worried about doing bad in the class, I`m worried about how there will be alot of higher classmen in the class. Should I be worried about higher classmates ?Basicly, anything you can tell me about highschool will help me,.. postive and negative information would help me.
♥ the scared freshmen. (link)
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Well, let me first congratulate you on entering high-school.
All the storys about high school, are totally not true. People arn't going to make fun of you, because of your sister's rep, heck, they probably wont even notice you. (not to be mean) But because you will be a ninth grader, there just mostly gonna ignore you.
My school has 3 floor's also, and yes, you will most likely get lost the first and second day, but after that, you pretty much get the hang of it. Teachers are also really nice about you being late the first couple of days, because they know how hard it is to find your way around a new school.
Wow, its awesome that your in a high science class, ^^ you should be really proud. There might be upperclassmen in the class, but your all there to learn the same thing, and people in highschool, as i said before, just dont really care about anything, lol.
Heres some advice, dont linger in the hallways, talking to your friends, try to stay off to the sides if you going to do that. And dont try to get people to know your name, not at least until you reach 10th grade. Its better to stay low on the radar.
I really hope that your next 4 years at highschool will be a blast! I know mine so far have! ^_~ and i'm in 11th now!
Have fun, and dont be scared!
much love
~Melissa~
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I'm going away for 5 days on Sunday. I have no idea how much to pack! I never pack enough and I run out of clothes by like the 3rd day! I don't want that to happen again!! It's going to be REALLY warm even at night so I dont need any long sleeved shirts. How many shirts, shorts, etc should I bring? I need a list please! If you were going away for 5 days what would you bring?? Please help!!! Lists only please. (link)
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^^ well, five days on vacation sure sounds fun!
Since its going to be warm, i would suggest bringing...
Shorts- at least 8 pairs if you have that many. You never know what could happen. They could get dirty.
Shirts- i would bring 8-10 shirts. Because they are more at risk then shorts are.
Undergarments!!- NOW, you have to bring as many of these as you can!!!!! Your gonna be gone for five days, thats two pair a day at least. so 10-15.
Socks- bring the same amount as you would normally. 5-6 pairs should be good, unless your only going to wear sandels. But you should always have sneakers just in case.
I hope you have lots of fun!
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ok, well a couples weeks ago i had bad backaches, and i was discharging alot. Im turning 14 soon and ive never go my period, but the one day i was fine and then i had a bad stomache and all i wanted to do was curl up in a ball, and i went to the bathroom and there was a little dot of blood like and inch big, and that its, i didnt tell my mom because idk if it was my period, and the stomache i could feel it on my right side like something idk it was just werid .. and i put a pad on but i only bled about another inch for that day and that was it .. the next day i was fine - so did i have my period? (link)
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Your body is probably telling you that your about to get your period. But your not quite there yet. OR, the blood does take awhile to soak through your hymen, and what you saw, was probably what soaked through the fastest.
I would suggest wearing a pad for awhile, just in case, and not wearing white pants, cause that could end up very very bad.
Also, the pain you felt in your side, is known as "cramping" and if you got it that violently, it means your period is coming. So, anouther reason you should wear a pad. Just feel lucky that your cramps only lasted for a week.
I hope your problem sorts itself out soon!
Message me if you have any quistions!
~Melissa~
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My best friend is WAY too sensitive. And it's soo annoying like you would NOT believe. I'm really getting sick of it. Her boyfriend just broke up with her a week ago, but they were only dating for like a week and a half. I also have a boyfriend, and we're friends with another couple. So she's the 5th wheel I guess. And I understand that she feels left out, so I do invite her to a lot of things. But yesterday was the first day I didn't invite her, because it was just the two couples (me and my boyfriend, and the other couple we're friends with). She got SO pissed off, and wasn't talking to me, and started crying on the phone. And then she hung up on me. Today I called her and she wasn't talking to me. I'm really getting annoyed with this. I try to tell her that it's not my fault and that she can't take her anger out on me just because I have a boyfriend but she does it anyway. She sulks in her room all day when I spend time with my boyfriend. How the heck am I supposed to deal with her?! HELP ME PLEASE. :| (link)
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It seems to me like your friend is very very lonely, and just clinging to you. You should tell her to back off, cause you have your own life too, and deserve your space.
If you want to hang out with your bf, and go double dating, without her there, then thats your buisness. She should expect to be included in everything. Thats not fair to you.
I would suggest talking to her (when she calms down) and telling her that you and you bf need time to be alone. And that you love to hang out with her (somtimes) but she's not your only friend.
I really hope i helped, and if i didn't, message me, and i'll try to work out some other things.
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how do you get no one to be in your top 8 or 12 or whatever? (link)
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I think that the least you can have is four people. I've never seen anyone without a top friends list.
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how many shots of alcohol will usually get you drunk and how many beers would get u drunk? (minimum amount) (link)
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It depends on your body weight. For me, since i'm only 120 pounds, it would take 1-2 shots for me to get buzzed. Say if your, 160 pounds, it would take 3-4 and so on.
Any type of alcohol will get you drunk. Rum and Vodka are stronger than some, and beer is just gross. but they'll all do the job.
Depending on what the shots are made out of, it could take more or less of what i mentioned earlier. ^^ if there was more info, i could tell you specifically.
Love ya,
~Melissa~
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I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet? (link)
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Of course not.
People get it at all times. Some get it realllly early, and some get it later than other people. Its perfectly natural.
But if your really worried about it, you should go see a doctor. Like, if your mom got it when she was really young, then maybe you might have a hormonal imbalance.
But i really doubht that that's it.
A word of advice, be thankful that you havn't gotten it yet...T_T its not a fun thing.
Love ya,
~Melissa~
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