Hair Color: Naturally Blonde and will allways stay that way
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Personality: Outgoing, unpredictable, humble, happy, easily entertained, loveable, funny, and allways joyful
I LOVE animals and guys. I also LOVE giving advice to ppl, no matter how embarrassing. If I don't know, then I will find out!
I have had alotta life experiences and i know what I feels like to go through alotta stuff.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: blonde
Age: 16
AIM: Blondhoty316
Yahoo: Blondhoty316@yahoo.com
Member Since: June 2, 2004
Answers: 35
Last Update: June 19, 2004
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ok i know im probably dumb for asking this but what is a cock ring? (link)
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lol. To tell you the truth, Ive heard alotta things but im not exactly sure. lol! But, you can ask someone else and get back to me! lol. Because I dunno either! lol.... Sorry that I couln't answer that! lol
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hey ive read your advice and you seem really sweet...well im 14 and havent had a real kiss and alot of my friends have told me theres like soo many different ways to kiss...i was just wondering if you could tell me how to move my tongue around! :-/ i know im a loser but theres this guy i like and im scared to kiss him because i dont want him to think im a total idiot because i cant kiss!! please help me i asked someone else but they said just relax and it all comes natural but that doesnt really help!! i hope you can really help me!! (link)
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-lol- Don't worry thats not a stupid question. I was scared too. But, the other person that you asked was right, you should relax. But, I have also heard that some people move there tongue in the alphabet. lol. Like if your making out with a guy who's name is JOHNATHAN. Then slowly make a J with your tongue, and then a O and then a H.... And so on. lol. I always thought that it was fun. But remember, dont go to fast. Just go slow and easy! I hope that i helped a little. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me.
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well thanx for answering me back its just that i dont make out wit the guy right away u kno and he trys to tell me he wants to but in different ways like hes like oh u made out wit whatshisface at a party wen u were wasted but im ur bf and u wont make out wit me its just that wen he kisses me he doesnt lk open his mouth so how am i supposed to make out wit him?????
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a allready answered this question. Write me back and tell me if you got it. Thanks, Blondie.
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well thanx for answering me back its just that i dont make out wit the guy right away u kno and he trys to tell me he wants to but in different ways like hes like oh u made out wit whatshisface at a party wen u were wasted but im ur bf and u wont make out wit me its just that wen he kisses me he doesnt lk open his mouth so how am i supposed to make out wit him?????
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lol, that's funny. Just tell him that he doesn't open his mouth. or to take a risk Open yours a little and stick our tongue out. lol. That sounds wierd, but I guarantee that he will catch on REALLY quick! lol. Write me back and tell me how that goes? P.S. Next time that he tells you that. Tell him that he hasn't made out with you either, so he needs to take the initiative.
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NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.
My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?
What should I/we do? (link)
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Ok. It could be his fault or nobody's fault. he is prolly REALLY nervous. And knowing that he can't keep an erection prolly makes it way worse. Just tell him that you don't care and then get him a cock ring. lol. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me.
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when your having sex does it hurt??? (link)
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Yes! It hurts pretty bad your first time! Because nothing that big has been up there, or that far up there. but, sometimes you get lubricated, so the penis slides in easier. But, if the guy is big, then just tell him to go slow and easy. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me.
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can a girl die form having sex? (link)
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NO. Of course not. But, you can get a sexually transmitted disease. Like aids or something. But, the guys penis cant kill you, if thats what your asking. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me.
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Will ya'll let me know it this is a good idea for spicing up my relationship....Ok Here it is, After school tomorrow I'm going to the band room, and before i walk in the room my boyfriend will be at the time walking towards the room ,so i'm going to look at him and gesture him to come here..and i'm going to go in turn of the lights and i'm am going to go to an empty room and when he walks in i'm going to gesture him to come in there and when he walks in shut the door and push him up against something and startin kissing him and slowly move my hand slowly down and unzip his pants and then give him head... How does that sound???? please let me know before tomorrow!!!! (link)
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Im sure that her would like that!
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hey i've been dating my bf for about 2 weeks now and i really like him a lot and he says he really likes me and i believe him cuase not all guys tlel there friends that there girl is one in a million well anyways i like him a lot but it doesnt seem like he knows wat he wants like around a certain group of people he cant be al touchy wit me like usual...like in school wen he walks up to me he just says hi and talks to me but wen hes about to leave he hugs and kisses me ...how can i make him like hug and kiss me wen he sees me ..."????? 15/f (link)
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Some guys are uncomfortable being all touchy-touchy around other people. Also, his last girlfriend might have not liked him toughing her all of the time or his last girlfriend didn't like being all touchy-touchy infront of certain people. Just ask him about. Or, better yet, take the initiative and when he isn't all touchy-touchy around you, grab his hand or something. Well, if you need anymore more advice, feel free to ask me.
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Is there any way to get over someone. I'm a guy who is trying to get over a female friend who doesn't feel the same way. (link)
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Look for other girls. try your hardes to think about other girls. When you start thinking about her, think of the cons about her. And then start thinking about who is hotter than her. Or sweeter either way. And of course, it will take time. But, sooner or later, you will get over her. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me!
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Wats up.. Im shocked that i even came here for advice... and i have my own advice column here but i wanna kno sum suggestion so here goes...
See,there's this boy i like... uhh... I had a chance to go with him last year when i was a freshmen but i said no.. because i felt i didnt really kno him and he kinda rushed it. Well we hadnt talked at all after that situation.. well now im a sophomore and in the beginning of the year i wrote him a letter telln him i apologize for wateva happened and i would like for us to be friends again.. and he is a understanding guy and he doesnt hold grudges.. so we became friends again. But as the year went along.. i started to like him again and i really regret wat i did last year and i feel stupid. But he calls me and we talk on the phone all the time and we also talk in school but the problem is.. is that he has a girlfriend but she's a senior so she's gonna be gone next year and he is a junior.. and i kno he feels me becuz we talk all the time.. when he is suppose to be talking to his girl, he's on the phone with me, and I 've talked to him about wat happen b/t us and he's cool wit it and everything. So should i try it again with him becuz i really like him, or should i jus leave him alone...?
I would appreciate an answer... Thanks a bunch...
My email: DanvlleFinest31@aol.com (link)
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Don't worry about it. He totally likes YOU! Alot! Guys NEVER call girls, unless they like them! He prolly just thinks that his reputation might be better with a senior. He obviously knows that it wont last with his recent girlfriend, or he would be talking to her. when they break up, be ready to swoop in. I think that you should prolly tell him. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me!
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How to i flirt with a guy of whom i am not sure likes me ? Any basic signals without overdoing it ?
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MAIN THING: Be yourself. I know that everyone says that, but you don't want him to like you for someone that you aren't. Right?! Also, talk to them like they are one of your close buds.And act like just one of the guys. Then, when you get REALLY close to one of them. Swoop in, and tell them how you feel!
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okay lots of adults say im so pretty and ive had lots of boyfriends even the ones that are superpopular and i am semipopular and every1 knows me but i feel like im ugly cuz some people say i am and then they turn around and be like damn gurl you got a nice butt let me hit that and then there are those who i talk to and we have a good time but they dont wanna go out with me what do i have to do to get boys to like me and how can i attract boys and what is my problem (link)
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-lol-. I am almost the exact same way. Just be yourself, and soon the guys will realize what there missing.DOn't be a slut, and give them some thing to look forward to. Thats my advice. If you need anymore, then just ask me!
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ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do? (link)
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OMG! I just went through the same thing. Just be yourself and don't throw yourself at him when he has a girlfriend. Make sure that your there to talk to him if/when they break up. Don't be to pushy, but make sure that you are there for him in his time of need. When he seems over her, swoop in and tell him what you feel about him. And reminince alot.
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I'm in love with this kid..but he doesn't know who I am...and I'm really shy so it isn't helping...hoe can I get him to notice me? (link)
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I think that you should just go up to him, and be like hi, my name is -----. I go to your school(or wherever) and I have seen you around. I just wanted to say hi. And be sure to smile. Guys usually like happy and outgoing girls. But, you can work your way up slowly. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me!
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hey, im 14 and i haven't had my first kiss but im with this one guy and well if we do kiss i don't want to be bad at it. so does any1 know some good techniques??????? (link)
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I was 15 and almost 16 when I had my first kiss. I wanted it to be perfect, so I always pulled away when someone tried to kiss me. But, there is no need to be nervous. I just licked my lips and went for it. Don't think about it too much, just close your eyes and relax. If you need more detailed tips, then just ask me.
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My bf is 17 and when we have sex he has trouble keeping an erection he's a bit worried about it
and about his size he an average size and i told him it doesn't matter to me im not sure what to do to help him he's my first bf what can i do? (link)
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I think that he should ask his doctor. Most guys are like odsessed with how big they are. He wants to satisfy you and have a good time at the same time. If he is new at having sex, then it could possibly just be nerves. But, just reassure him that its ok, and that it doesn't matter how big he is, because you wouldn't want to be with anyone else! Ow yeah, one more thing, don't feel pressured to have sex with him just because he is your first boyfriend. You can give him something to look forward to. I hope this helped, and please ask me more questions if you have any.
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my thighs are fat and i want to slim them down... how do i do it? What kinda excersices do i need to do? (link)
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leg lifts work great. So does running. For leg lifts, just do like 20 reps 3 times. It works great! Don't give up. It may talk time!
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What is the best way to pleasure myself without a guys help? (hint i am a girl) (link)
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just don't do it would prolly be the bestest way. Either that or a dildo.
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im a guy that wants his girlfrind to kiss him, but doesnt know what to say or do... HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Its ALWAYS nice to ask!!!!
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