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what do i have 2 do
okay lots of adults say im so pretty and ive had lots of boyfriends even the ones that are superpopular and i am semipopular and every1 knows me but i feel like im ugly cuz some people say i am and then they turn around and be like damn gurl you got a nice butt let me hit that and then there are those who i talk to and we have a good time but they dont wanna go out with me what do i have to do to get boys to like me and how can i attract boys and what is my problem
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-lol-. I am almost the exact same way. Just be yourself, and soon the guys will realize what there missing.DOn't be a slut, and give them some thing to look forward to. Thats my advice. If you need anymore, then just ask me!
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From what you've told us, you're measuring yourself totally against what other people say and think of you. So your opinion of yourself is completely based on outside influences which inevitably means (whether consciously or subconsciuosly) you are letting other people control your thinking and feelings therefore your actions too. But what matters most is what you think of yourself. Do you think you're pretty? Do you like who you are? When you know yourself better than anyone else, it won't matter if someone calls you stupid, ugly or weird, because you know the truth. We don't need other people to define who we are.
I know we all care about what others think of us to some extent because we are social animals. But we cannot let that rule our life. Otherwise we would be too self-conscious to do anything. So, try not to take in everything people say to you but learn to be confident with who you are. Confidence is definitely attractive and it will make you look and feel mature and not desperate. And you will find a right boy just for you, rather than any boy.
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