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*NaMe* JeSsIcA*AgE* 13
*HeIgHt* 5'3
*HaIr* BlOnDe
*EyEs* GrEeN
*LoCaTiOn* WiScOnSiN
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theres a hurricane coming and im rlly scared. we dnt have shutters. im going to stay at a friends house wut should i bring from my room.i want to bring evrything but i cant. i rlly need to noe hurry thanks
*oh i'm sorry. you should bring stuff that's most valuable to you. like your money and stuff that means alot to you...etc. you get what i'm sayin*
*jEsSiCa*
okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop
*try hanging out with her more after school and talk to her in between classes n' stuff. she won't feel as left out if your spending equal amount of time with her as you are with your other friend.*
*jEsSiCa*
i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!
*i think you should stay with your bf!! you wouldn't want to dump someone you've been going out with for soooo long!! you must REALLY like him if you 2 can stay together that long!!. just forget about the other guy. you don't want to lose what you have already*
*jEsSiCa*
me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all!
*it depends on how long you've been on the diet. you normally won't see results for about a month or two so don't give up!! just keep doing it and you'll see results sooner or later!! hope i helped!!*
*jEsSiCa*
ok well this might sound kinda weird, but me n my boyfriend have been goin out for 2 months, and I could possibly be pregnant, and all of a sudden he is talkin to his ex alot, and I dont know if I should assume somethin or not, cause they used to talk about how they hated each other, and dont get me roung but his ex is really pretty and im just kinda scared he is goin to leave me for her..what do I do??
*he might just be going for his ex now that you might be pregnant. he's probably really scared now that he might be having a baby with someone he barely knows and he's still young. talk to him about it. he's gonna have to take responsibility for this kid whether he likes it or not. if you need any more help drop one in my inbox*
*jEsSiCa*
Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!
Signed
*Confused~~
*you shouldn't have to change for your friends. they should be happy with the way you are. you be who you want to be- if you liked your girlie self better, then go with that. if you liked sk8r, well you get what i'm saying. just be yourself and don't worry about what your friends think*
*.jessica.*
OK...muh bf and i are goin good but sometimes i cant take it because hes so immature and i wanna dump him sometimes but then im like i cant hurt him bc jus the other day he told me he loves me..and like i havent said it bakk bc i dont..but what do i do?i wanna break up with him but hes the greatest friend..& i dont wanna loose him
just tell him the relationship isn't working out but you still want to be friends.
*Jess*
I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me
PEACE
just tell your mom how you feel about him. she can't stop you from liking someone that you're in love with already!! it just aint right!!
*Jess*
Ok I have there's this girl who is going out with this boy, and me and the girl are best friends. And the other boy is going out with her. Me and the other boy got into a arguement and the girl has to decied between one of us but she doesn't kno what to do.Is there anything i can tell her to do that will help her decision???
she shouldn't have to pick between the both of you. but if she has to i would say if she has been your bff for a lot longer than she's been with this guy, she should most definitly pick you. she shouldn't throw away a good friend for some guy who might end up breaking her heart. if the guy suggested that she should pick, he's not being fair to his gf and they shouldn't be going out. hope i helped!! if you need any more help just drop one in my inbox!
*Jess*
I have this friend and she hung out with this other guy and they went shopping and the movies ect. Sometimes I think that he likes her or she likes him. But even tho i have no feelings for her i get jealous sometimes what should i do
normally if you get jealous of someone it means you like them. but since you say you don't then maybe you don't. if this guy is her boyfriend, don't try and get in the middle of it. hope i helped!! if you have any more questions just drop one in my inbox!!!
*Jess*
ok my friends all say i am not fat but it seems like i have to take down all the mirrors in my house cuz i can't look at myself i see all of my friends are so small and skinny i feel dumb being 97 pounds at age 13
97 pounds is not a lot for your age!! you're perfectly normal!! most people i know that are 13 weigh more than that so you have nothing to worry about!! relax! lol hope i helped!
*Jess*
I have this friend, who is female, and we're both in the same grade and we're in the same grade and school. We have grown to be best friends, and somehow I've fallen for her.(Ya know i wanna be more than friends)But she already likes this other guy who already has a gf, and she won't give up on him. I try and give her clues every once and awhile that i really like her but apparently she doesn't see that what should i do???
just tell her that you like her. maybe if she knows that you like her, she will like you to. maybe she has liked you this whole time but was afraid to tell you because she thought she would get rejected. just tell her. let me know how it goes!!
*Jess*
This boy broke up with me cuz he said that it wasnt how he excpected it to be and it wasnt that serious, he said he wanted to just be friends. Then i told him how much he ment to me. I made him feel bad. He told my friend he didnt like girls that tel boys that they meant something to them and that they loved him. But he was the one who said i love you first. I got him to realize that i really loved him and he asked me out again, I said yes. But now i think that he just asked me out agian because he felt bad and when I ask him he says it isnt that. But i think it is, what should i do?
if he wants to be in a respectable relationship, he can't go around lyeing to you. you won't know if he's lyeing to you or not unless you ask him to be completely truthful with you otherwise the relationship won't work. hope i helped!! if you need anything else, just drop one in my inbox!
*Jess*
i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him
if you're not ready, then don't do it. you're bf will wait if he really likes you. don't do something you're not ready to do.
*Jess*
theres a kid i went out with then i dumped him because i didnt have feelings for him now i like his brother and he's really mad at me because i like his brother i don't know what to do should i go back out with him so he wont be madc or like his brother?
you can't help who you like. if you like his brother, i think you should keep liking him. you shouldn't stop liking someone just to make another person happy. and if you don't like that guy anymore, he should be able to accept that and move on.
*Jess*
iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?
call him. just talk for a while and i bet before you hang up he'll ask you out. if you aren't ready to go out yet, just tell him. he'll understand if he likes you enough.
*Jess*
OKay guys! On the first day I have narrowed it down to two diffrent choices:
1. blue jeans, a halter top w/ a cute shirt (the kind that have the buttons at the top that u leave undone (i know complicated to explain), black flip-flops, and a pink and black purse and pink and black back-pack!
2. blue jeans, a dark pink and blue shirt (the polo kind) with pink flip flops and a pink and a pink and black purse and pink flip flops!!
3. other.
okay please choose one!!!!! :D Keep in mind I am starting a new school and I'm confused about the style!! Thanks guys!
i think the second one sounds cute. it doesn't matter what other people think of your style as long as you're comfortable with it. i'm sure you'll fit in great!! let me know how it goes!!
*Jess*
okie well i no im not the very pretty but is there a way i can like talk to guys on get them to notic me or how can i get guys to like me????
*I rate well*
try changing your look completely different from what you had last year. dye your hair, highlights, shop at different stores..etc. whatever you can do to try and change your look a little. that normally gets people to notice you pretty quickly. hope i helped!
*Jess*
ok well like a week ago we had camp for cheerleading..and at the last day we had tryouts to go to the perade (ima cheerleader all ready but this means ur really good) and well..i honestly did perfect in my tryouts..everyone said i did AWESOME and i was gonna make it for sure..well when she told us who made it..all my friends made it and i didn't..even a girl the cheerleader teacher liked made it and she SUCKED i thought i got robbed..and at the end everyone said shes a jealous cheerleader bitch..cuz i shoulda made it..and i know i shoulda cuz it was PERFECT..and i just feel so cheated and hurt cuz i practiced so hard..
o. that does sound really unfair. there isn't really anything you can do about it now except talk to the person. was that UCA camp you went to?? where was it cuz i think i was there! im me @ beachbum5724
does ne1 have ne ideas of how to dye my hair like wut products [home made stuff or store bought stuff] and wut color i shuld dye it i have dark dark brown hair close to black??!! soo if u have ne ideas of how to dye my hair and wut color is good for it help me plzz!
well i'm dyeing my hair a blonde like Ashlee Simpson's hair color. you could try something like that. some good products are Garner Nutrisee, Herbal Essences...... there's a lot of different brands you could use. i would recommend the first 2 i said. good luck!!