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I can't tell if a girl in my class is treating me as a friend or backup.
There is this girl in my class. We got close because we realised we read the same comics. But i have never felt she had became my friend. She ignores me sometime, only when i message her though, and we don't exactly go up to each other in the morning to say hi. She also has a lot of other friends she hangs out with. She only ever approaches me when they are not available.
Lately she has been coming to me to complain about different things, or to vent to me, or to ask different things. She also comes to me when she feels sad, mistreated or frustrated (she is quite sensitive). I cannot tell why she comes to me specifically. I feel I'm not good at comforting her or empathising with her. A part of me wants to help her, but the other part of me hates her for doing so. I have no one to vent to and with the circumstances i grew up in, i wouldn't trust a friend or anyone in my class with my thoughts.
I want to know why she does this but asking her that will for sure hurt her feelings. What do i do?
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