How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
Question Posted Tuesday October 3 2023, 2:34 am
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online.
Speaking from experience, girls (and guys) sometimes act different toward a person when they think that a person is single (or available). So there's a chance she does, in fact, think he is single.
I think it would be important to have that conversation with your boyfriend and not really beat around the bush about it. Ask about the friendship and how some of the comments might make you uncomfortable on his social media. If I'm wondering how they know each other than you must be wondering too lol. I think you can ask him. And also let him know you would prefer if this girl knew that your boyfriend was in a relationship. [ iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0's advice column | Ask iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 A Question ]
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