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hello thank you again for helping me
but i wrote my letter in the living room when mum was watching telly so i was nervous she might see
and i wrote it all wrong because i am a girl not a boy , interesting to know boys need to learn about masturbating as well as girls though , do you want me to write if i dare try mums massager ?
just to say if it helped me ? my mums 31y btw but very shy
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Since i am female, I can't say how well holding a massager against the penis will help with sensation. I will say its not a good idea to use some one elses 'Toy', because of body fluids that end up on it. If your Mom didn't take it to the bathroom to clean off, best not to use. Just assume its got her own body fluids on it IF it was used for pleasure and not to massage knotted muscles. Since you don't know, don't use and don't take it to use. Just ask her. Or better yet, if you really want to use a massager and are curious enough, you are probably going through puberty and thats when a person starts to have an interest in exploring sex first with yourself and later with a partner. I would hope she'd understand but then again, she probably had you when she was 17 or 18, a teenager, and if you show desire to start down the road of self exploration, it may scare her thinking you might get pregnant in a few years, like she did. So it depends on stuff like that, her shyness and such to want to even discuss. I used to be shy about speaking like that or even writing the word 'sex'. It doesn't bother me anymore and there are so many people who truly want to learn but feel they have no where to turn to ask their questions. There used to be tons of videos done by a Laci Green when she was 17, 18 and older. She did great research, made the videos short and with humor sometimes, gave you the lastest info on everything, how to have an orgasm, about the hymen, even about health dating relationships vs bad ones, period products and so on. Apparently she got into trouble at some point and I can't find her video main page anymore. When searching by her name, all that comes up is her book published recently called Sex Plus also. So if brave enough to talk to Mom, ask her for the book as well because she was very good, correct on the info and was making many of the videos on the behalf on 'Planned Parenthood' and another
group. If trying to convince her, let her know that this way, she doesn't have to explain anything to you. The info and videos from when she started are the best I know of so it doesn't matter to me what trouble she's gotten into or how she has changed now that she's around your Moms age. I even learned something in the video about period products, like the newer cup on the market so its worth a try if you want to learn facts that are for real, not guesses by your peers, or lies.
If at last resort, all you can do is masturbate, then do so. The clit is the most sensitive having more nerve endings in that little spot than a male has in his entire penis. So use some lube, or if none, sometimes one owns saliva works in a pinch and explore massaging yourself down there. Everyone is different a little in pressure or the speed of the touch or rubbing so experiment. This is handy and normal to do. It helps later when grown up and having a sex partner and you'll be able to tell them what to do to be successful in getting you to climax.
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