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shaving my underarms for girlfriend
I don’t know if there is a contest for weirdest question but I feel mine might qualify to be in the contest. My big question is about whether or not to keep my underarms shaved or to let the hair grow back to natural. I am a 14 year old guy in high school. My girlfriend is 16 years old and amazingly beautiful and way smarter than me and a funny sense of humor. I did a dare where I let my girlfriend and her friend shave my underarms in a video to prove I was in support of women who had to shave there when guys don’t have to do it. I was trying to be in support of women’s rights but I found out from her later that was just an excuse to prank me and I fell for it. I guess it was funny. I say it shows I will literally do anything to keep my girlfriend happy. My guy friends say it is “gay” which is not a cool thing to say no matter what but I think they literally mean only people who are homosexual do it. That is bogus because I know some athletes do it for things like swimming and wrestling and it has nothing to do with being gay or not gay. My sports are basketball and baseball so that is not a real excuse for me to do it but my point is different people do it. I personally like it. It feels good to be smooth there as long as I keep it shaved and my girlfriend says no hair makes my muscles stand out more. She said my pits smell better too even if I worked out or just finished practice which I think is just like the underarm hair getting wet and stinking and now it doesn’t. What she thinks counts for the most and she says I should not listen to my guy friends. She jokes she is going to dare me to do more shaving down below so I am hairless from the neck down. That makes me nervous but I think she is really just trying to make me squirm which she thinks is funny. My haircut is already super short which she picked out so not much more she can make me do that way. I am not a body builder but I do think I look a little more jacked without the armpit hair. I do like that she tells me take my shirt off all the time to check and she actually helps me keep it smooth. I know that is kind of weird but all the attention I get from her turns me on so I am like whatever you want to do sign me up. My dad told me I was insane to do it but he did not care as long as I did not get a tattoo or piercing. He was like it will grow back so no big deal. My mom does not know yet unless my dad told her but she did not act like she knows. My girlfriend said if I wanted to go back to normal it would be okay but she wants me to stay the same for now if I want to do it. She said if I got chest hair she would want me to keep it smooth too. I guess I will do what she wants because I want to be sexy for her the way she wants. Personally I think my guy friends need to get a girlfriend and then see how cool it can be if you make her happy. We are virgins because she wants to be and that is okay with me but all I am saying is there are a lot of very nice things without going all the way that can happen if your girlfriend knows you are into making her happy. For example, I will go shopping with her and carry her crap all Saturday because I know she will reward me later like making out which can be very awesome even if it frustrating to stop. Plus, it feels really good for her to say what a good boyfriend I am to other people and she also comes to all my games and some practices like my personal cheerleader which is awesome. Why would I give that up to have hairy armpits I did not even like. Sounds dumb to me. What do you think?
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It sounds like you are an amazing guy and you have been raised right. I love the fact you want to make your girlfriend happy and it makes you happy doing it. If you don’t feel like she’s changing you continue doing what makes you happy. Boys will be boys making fun of each other but like you said it’s not gay sports do it etc. no judgement :)
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