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Crush on my brother´s best friend
Hi :)
I saw him yesterday because he came to our place to help my twin brother with something, so he in his room most of the time. I only managed to say hi to him and thats all.
How long should I wait to text him? I do really like him. And I wanna tell him how i feel. It´s just it will be long time till we see each other in person, that why I wanted to text him. And I dont know if he wants to meet up with me alone or if he´s busy. I´m also really busy with school and work. Also where would I invite him to drop such a bombshell on him?
I wish he didn´t knew my brother(s). Yes, he also knows my older brother. Its just when we talk its mostly about them and I dont want that. I´m also hesitant to tell him about my feelings because we will have high school reunion in 2 years and I dont want it to be awkward.
I´m sorry I dont really wanna bother you with my shit, I just dont have anyone to ask for an advice and I really overthink these kinds of stuff.
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You shouldn't overthink it. All you need to do is have a normal conversation in person. All you are doing is asking him to clarify what the mixed signals you are getting are or if you have read things wrong. You don't have to drop the "I like you" bombshell either. You can keep that part under your hat and just ask where things stand. The only way to know if he will meet up with you is to ask.
If you see him visiting your brothers again just say to him "Can I talk you for a moment" and handle it there because that's your in. Overthinking it or driving ourself bonkers over it is silly. These conversations are normal and happen all the time. You have to figure out where things stand or you'll find yourself wasting time on what ifs rather than what is. You'll be fine.
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