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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a crush on my BF and she is trying to impress him. Should I do something about it? It is bothering me a lot. I didn't ask my bf about the girl yet. Should I ask him? How can I ask him? or should I just ignore it?
BTW we don't share our couple picture online or post anything about our relationship online. As me and my BF both are very private person. Our close friends and family members know about our relationship. But we don't showoff online.
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Hi, thanks for writing. I can understand your confusion. Relationships are hard, especially long distance ones. Yet your relationship has lasted a long time under those conditions, and that is unusual. I believe you are correct in your statements that you think she is trying to impress him and get his attention. She has no way of knowing that he is in a relationship. Because you both agreed to keep that private. So what is he doing to discourage her? Anything? Or more to the point...is he doing anything to encourage her? Like responding to her comments. She could take that as a sign that she could get to know him better. This is why long distance relationships are hard. At your age, 27, has there been any talk between the two of you to make the relationship more solid? Spend more time together? Plan for the future? At least change your status to "in a relationship". You are very patient, but it has to be hard on you. I believe it would be ok to ask him about taking the relationship to the next level. Just to clarify where the relationship is going. If he likes things TOO much just the way they are, then it may be that he won't be making a commitment even down the road. And if you are OK with that, then I guess you'll have to accept that other women may from time to time, explore the possibility of a relationship with him, since to all outward appearances, he does not seem to be in one. Good luck to you
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