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Someone posted pictures of my boyfriend with a caption saying he’s single


Question Posted Saturday November 16 2019, 6:25 am

What should I tell to the girl who posted pictures of my boyfriend saying he’s single without me and my boyfriend knowing in a badass but educated way?

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 17 2019, 6:10 pm:
Is it true? If it is, you dont have to say anything but if you like the post, then say so. If it is not true, don't give her the reaction she wants to see, you getting upset. The one who should be most concerned is your boyfriend. If he is not upset, either he doesn't care about what she did and is ignoring it, which is what you might try doing or he isn't bothered because he doesn't care if the post brings girls hitting on him because he's been thinking of playing around with others. I don't know him, or you or that girl. All I know is that this sounds typical for young people from middle school through college.
The only piece I am not clear on, being grandma age to you, is saying he's knows of the post in a badass educated way. I don't use that way to describe things so I have no clue what you meant by that. If you wish to educate me, please write and tell me. Otherwise, I would do nothing regarding the girl. Hang out with boyfriend as usual and don't bring it up. Just treat him as you always did. However, if you feel he shows more lack of respect to you, not the same amount of care and love, treats you worse than before or just doesn't seem to have any desire to spend with you anymore, then let him go and find someone else. Dating before marriage or along time partner is merely a good way to learn what you like and also won't tolerate in each guy and with each new boyfriend, look for someone a step better and make a list of the things you like and dont. It was such a list that helped me after a divorce to find myself a man who is a keeper, a most wonderful husband and lover. I swear by this list. You make your own. So if someone thought they had chemistry with you but no longer feel it, worst case scenerio here, then it serves no purpose to force such a relationship to keep going. This is where one partner is too easily lured into cheating because they are with the wrong person as far as having chemistry. And this is a good, sensical reason to part ways, if the worst thing here is that he knows and is happy because it does the job for him wsithout having to say he's splitting up.

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