It is about me and my ex. Should I move on or should I try to get him back?
Question Posted Tuesday August 27 2019, 12:38 am
I miss my ex very much, I miss everything about him. I think about him every single day which makes me feel so depressed. Okay let me tell you what happened, basically he broke up with me 5 months ago but we were still friends the reason he broke up with me is because he said he wants to focus on himself and he doesn’t want a relationship. a week later after the breakup he said he wants me back. So we would do what we would do in a relationship but we weren’t together but he said he wanted me. After that he started moving weird, less attention and barely texted me. Then all of a sudden one day he tells me he wants to cut everything off, like just be friends, no kissing or whatever. So i was shocked but I understood so i was like okay. He told me how he will always love me and he would get mad if he seen me with someone else. I was heartbroken, why did you break up with me but you say you still loved me. So yes that happened and then days after I found out how he’s talking to this other girl but he told me he wants to focus on himself! I don’t get it. So i got mad to the point where I cussed him off completely out of anger and after that we never talked again. I regret cussing him off. But i had a point because he made me go insane. By the way we were on and off for 3 years. ON AND OFF BECAUSE OF HIM. I love him to death i would do anything for him. I will never do anything to hurt him but he hurt me 3 times already by dumping me and being with other girls. He’s a very confused boy. He doesn’t know what he wants. But yes We never talked for months. He seems happy in the relationship but I really do miss him despite everything he did that hurt me. I forgive him. Just the other day I apologized for the way i cussed him off and he said he accepted my apologies. And that’s all we never talked again. Please what do i do, i miss him so much. I think about him everyday, I think about if he thinks the same way like I do. I feel like somewhere in him he still loves me. Do you think i should miss him? Or should I completely forget about him? When we were together we were like soulmates. We have so many things in common and my family loves him. He’s amazing and we do everything together he’s the other half of me. My friends love when we’re together. I’m broken💔I wish we were together still. He’s a very confused boy though. He can’t make up his mind. I just had to rant because I have no one else to speak to because i feel like everyone will judge me and say “why are you still inlove with him” I see a future in him, i see a future in us. I cant think of anyone else but him. I’m still committed to him. I gave him my everything. I loved him for 3 years straight. That love never broke. It’s still strong. He would always run back to me but this time i feel like he wont. Oh man I’m torn. I want my baby back. But he has a girl now. And i will feel like a clown if we ever do get back together. But i feel like we will find eachother again in the future and that time we will be mature enough to not leave eachother.💔😞i want my baby back. He’s the other half of me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Friday August 30 2019, 4:29 pm: You said alot but it wsa your last phrase that told me all I needed to know. If you are looking for a bit of wisdom on what to do, I could just say move on or get him back but your last phrase reveals something you may not have realized is just as important is not more so than your beginning question. So I hope you bear with me and watch a video by Jay Shetty on having someone that makes you feel happy and complete. That saying and belief actually has errors and he explains why. I encourage you to look him up on Facebook or on line by his name and start tuning in to all the other tidbits of wisdom he has to share, some I already have known and others I am just starting to learn.
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