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Boyfriend of 4 years
Hello, I am 24 and my boyfriend is 25 and we've been together for four years. I have only been with men in my life, I've always been attracted to men in my life. I can agree that some women are beautiful but that's usually as far as it went. Lately, I've been fantasizing about sex with a woman and what it would be like. I've been doing some reading and research on the topic and it seems like it's a pretty normal thing for women to fantasize about that but I just wanted a second opinion. Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend with my whole heart and I see myself getting married to him and having his children.
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I am like you, I can look at a woman and enjoy how pretty they are, much like enjoying a pretty nature vista. The difference is, there is no sexual desire or feelings associated with it. I like males only.
What you are talking about is termed 'Bi curious' by people in alternative sexual circles.
My ex and I were invited by friends to go along with them to a weekend all Saturday party to the home of their friends who had a big home, a big pool for fun in the sun. I made sure I got proof the home owners were okay with us extras coming along.
We had no idea ahead of what some of these people were like. We were all very free thinking sexually.
So while my husband was busy talking to the guys, I was poolside, working on my tan, eyes closed. When I opened them, I noticed all the women were gone and I was the only one there. I asked the host were all the women went? He told me that two of the women were bi sexual and lovers and had announced they were going to a room in the house to have at it. The thing is, many of the women there were either just curious about it being something different, or were bi curious. I was told all the women apparently went to watch the two because they were all bi curious. I was told if I wanted to join the watchers, he'd show me where. I had already witnessed women kissing plenty in real life and it did nothing to thrill me. I did not need to see more.
So don't worry about it. Its normal to feel and never want to act upon. Enjoy your boyfriend.
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That's fine and normal. You don't have to be bisexual or pansexual or anything to be curious about physical relationships with the same sex. It's a natural human feeling, actually. Some people call it weird, but it's not. It's just curiosity and it's completely natural.
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