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Exfriend dating my crush...how do i get over him and not hate this girl.
So my crush has a girlfriend, whom I was friends with through middle school who would isolate one person out of the friend group to herself and needed attention a lot. Anyways I know this girl for about 5 years( now were sophomores) throughout high school we separated and were not friends anymore, and I felt relieved that she wasn't my friend anymore (I know sounds horrible) but this year we started talking a bit since my sister would force me to go to these outings with a group with her.
Now she is dating my crush, that I liked, she doesn't know this. They literally just meet on a group chat. even the girl admitted about two weeks ago to another friend of mine that she didn't like him like that, but he asked her out..... I'm just shocked. Their relationship is more flirty and sexual*vomits* on text because we're in a group chat with them. But in person, it just looks awkward.. The painful things I saw today was his phone screensaver and they were walking together with my group friends as I pass. I don't know why but it actually physically made my stomach hurt, my anxiety was pretty bad from that. I have to accept that things won't change even when it hurts... I just need help to get over this crush and not having bitter feelings towards this girl who actually wants to be my friend once again, even how much I want to yell in this girl's face.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I read your story. Anxiety and Crush Feelings are natutral. But that does not mean that there is not someone even more attractive and worth looking for and made especially for you. There is a whole wide world out there. Go to the library, the coffee shop, look out for guys that hold the door for you and who do not ahve a wedding ring on their finger.
Furthermore, If you find someone interesting.. do not blow it by sleeping with them and over texting them. Just take it casual, weekly lunches when able.
Then, maybe a movuie at the public theatres. Then maybe a discussion about the movie and a short walk around the downtown.
Think about it.
Best of Luck,
MisterAdvice101
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