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Should i leave my marriage?
Should i break up my 7 year marriage?
My husband is a gambler and we are aleays broke
I recently met a man who is a widower and livling
with his sister i like him but I think it is too soon for him to move in,
Please help
I am 53 Gentlemen in question are 63
Thank you
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You say you have a 7 year marriage, but you are 53. Were you married previously or is this your first marriage?
Was gambling a problem before you married him?
I would first talk to your husband and ask him not to gamble as much. Personally I think it's better to attempt to save the relationship you already have than starting a new one. However, if things do not improve, I would look into leaving him as long as you have your own source of income. Also, if you do have your own source of income, can you block him from using what you earn so that you aren't always broke?
Secondly, if you do decide that leaving is the best option, is jumping into another relationship a good idea right off the bat? Also, does he have his own source of income and just lives with his sister? Or is he broke and relying on her? You wouldn't want to go from one broke man to another, it would just be unneeded stress for your life.
Honestly - 1. Try to fix your current relationship. Do you still love him at least? If you are thinking of someone else, you aren't being faithful to your husband and that isn't fair.
2. If you decide to leave, take some time and get an apartment of your own. Relearn what you like and figure out how you enjoy living.
3. Then if you decide to continue things with the new man, will he fit well into the way you want your life to go? Or will he be too much like your previous relationship?
Hope this helps a bit. Best of luck.
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