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cheating boy


Question Posted Tuesday August 7 2018, 5:57 pm

Hi, why do a good boyfriend tend to cheat? he's lovely and been together for few years and they have a son. he don't want to leave her because they have a 2 year old son together plus he says no kids wants to see their parents separated. me, on the other hand we went out a year ago for a few months (he wasn't happy that time with his girlfriend) and he broke up with me because he's got a family responsibility besides we both been friends before we went out. until to this day we still sahy hi and hello on the message and we still see each other. i do still love him but he says he sees me as friend and he also asks, 'DO YOU WANT TO KEEP THIS FRIENDSHIP OR NOT?' i feel we both talking and visiting me still makes me think he's cheating on her, what do you think guys? why would he asks me if i wanted to keep this friendship or not? is he hoping us could happen in the future? the other day while we were chatting i said he won't see me when i'm 60 years old as i won't be around here as i might move and he said, 'you never know darling,' so please help me but don't judge me because he's good boy. both 27. please do explain, are we wrong?
thank you so much




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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday August 7 2018, 11:54 pm:
He doesn't visit you because of how you feel. He visits you because of how he feels...horny. You can't complain if you don't like this because you have a choice, feelings or not, to walk away. You have chosen to take whatever you can get from him. Until you decide otherwise hon, you just have to like things the way they are. I have answered something like this twice or more times before. Maybe you, maybe not. If you, then if you have written so many times, it is eating you up, you are not happy. When you are ready to move on, not settle for less and find a guy who will treat you like a queen, only you, no one else, let me know. I have something I can share on how to find Mr. Right. Its about finding man who already is what you need, not how to turn a man into someone you need. For the most part, that can't be done and that is why you are stuck in a rut.

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