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he calls himself as my boyfriend?
Hi, we've been going out casually for about 4 months. we had a bit of a disagreement and I just ignored him but when I went up to him and apologised and he said oh am I your boyfriend again? the thing is we hardly say we're girlfriend and boyfriend but now he's just asked even though we rarely mention. so, do ask am I your boyfriend? I mean what does it mean? thanks
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If you two had not been talking due to argument, and all of a sudden you speak to him again, then his phrase 'Oh am I your boyfriend again" in this case means "Oh, are you on speaking terms with me again?"
I don't know how long the two of had not been speaking. What you may not have considered is that he did not miss talking with you and wasn't even curious as to what was bothering you. A guy who is really in a girl is going to care a bit more about how she is feeling. An exceptional guy is going to want to know if he did something to make you upset and if he is at fault, he will do his best to change his ways and treat you better.
Got a good piece of advice for the future. If it happens again, do not ignore him. You may think it is sending a message but it won't be the message you are hoping to send. When females stop talking, most guys are more likely to just be confused. They may know you are upset but not why. It could be you and having too high of expectations or misunderstandings that are natural when males and females reason out things differently. on the other hand, if he truly did something wrong, something you won't tolerate in how he treats you and you ignore, then you start talking first and apologize every time just to not lose him, you are actually training him that he can treat you like crap and you will get upset but always come back and not expect or demand better of him next time.
You instead are excited that he mentioned himself as your boyfriend. I can't tell you if he really feels like he is your boyfriend. But when any two people start seeing each other exclusively, and that means not hanging out with any other guy for you and not hanging out with any other girl for him, that generally means the two of you are dating. Cousins don't date each other, siblings don't date each other, so if any two people decide to date, they are automatically boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't get too excited yet. There are plenty of bf/gf couples dating where either both or only one has made a commitment to the other. A commitment means they are pretty sure they've found the person they want to be with long term or life long and they are no longer looking for someone else. That means you are not filler to keep him busy until he finds someone he liked better.
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