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Trying to understand my Boyfriend
We both are 28 and only been dating for a few months but known each other for a year. It’s just that when he gave me a birthday card and Christmas card he put, “To my lovely and my name” and he puts, “ From, your boyfriend and his name” instead of writing simple. Now, writing to my and your boyfriend does these concept have a possessive meaning or trying to say,”you’re mine or something or I own you? Why would he say it like that instead of from and to and adding the name? He does love me like crazy. I also know he’s a possessive boy but in a good way. Thank you all
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My Goodness, you are really overthinking this major! He put the descriptive word 'lovely' in front of your name. I'd say that sounds like a compliment, that he finds you to be a lovely person. Putting the word "My" in there designates that you simply are his girlfriend, not Shirleys or Chelseys etc. You did say he is your boyfriend so why is it odd to put your boyfriend Dave, John or whatever?
If he were your husband, he could sign it your husband Dave. If I had a mate who scrutinized everything I said for hidden meanings or double meanings, I would be afraid to talk or communicate at all and I would clam up. I don't think you want that.
What's the real issue hon? Is it that a previous boyfriend was a control freak and possesive so you are imagining that now in simple non controlling gestures?
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