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Hi, recently we went out for a friendly dinner two nights in a row, just the two of us. Don't know if it's a date or a two friends having dinner. He knows I like him and I know he likes me too but we rarely talk about this matter as we're good friends. We have hugged after the dinner and he kissed my neck while I was sat on the chair he hugged from behind, very tight hug and kissed on my neck and ear area. We're talking and he tells me you're falling in love with me, I asked him, are you not feeling anything or don't you have a feelings for me then AND that moment he says I would be lying, 'if i didn't having feelings or if I didn't like you'. Now, what is the meaning of this line? Why would he say he would be lying....? Thank you all
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He said, "I would be lying if I said I didn't have feelings for you." In a sense it is a more positive way of say, yes I do have feelings for you.It really depends on were the two of you are in the relationship. Where you and he would like the relationship to go.
So many times you meet a guy and you like him. Your looking for a long term relationship. He is not really looking for any real relationship his feelings are more lustful but you have made it known your not getting in bed with someone who does not have feelings for you. It is easy to say I do have some feelings for you. In his mind he is saying; hey whatever she wants to hear to get her between the sheets.
For most of us guys it is easy to say we have feelings for you and not be lying if all we want is sex. To us it is more meaningful to say; we would be lying if we said we didn't have feelings for you for. It means we are looking for a relationship to. Its complicated because we know the lines guys use to get a girl in bed and if we are really interested in someone we don't want to use that same line.
Now I could be wrong its been 46 years since I have dated and the last time I used that line is to the Gal I married. It is what I felt that line meant then and I believe it is true today.
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