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I'm not sure if this is the proper subject. Im the kind of girl that wears band shirts and shorts or skinnies. my boyfriend loves it. He likes a little bit of makeup which is what i usually do and a few times he has asked me to do a full face of makeup just cause hes curious how it looks. he gave me his favorite band shirt cause he loves when i wear it. he loves my style and everything about me. whether i have makeup or no makeup. whether im wearing a loose band t or dressed up a little nicer. he is out of state at the moment and im going to visit him soon. i am so lost on what i should wear. i haven't seen him in over a month and i want to look nice but i want to be the same that he loves that i am. so my question is should i wear a nice summer dress, his favorite band shirt and some ripped jeans or just normal casual shorts and shirt? and should i do a full face of makeup or just my usual stuff. i want to see him casual and comfy how he loves and knows me but i want to dress up a little too. so im really stressing over what to wear. and i know if i wear his favorite band t that he gave me it would make him happy. but i also don't want to wear something he always sees/saw me in. and i was thinking about a full face of makeup because he was always so curious about how it looks. but i can just do my usual minimum makeup that i know he already loves cause he doesn't really care for a lot of makeup. i know this isn't something super huge that someone should be stressing about but i haven't seen him in a while and im so excited and i just want to look nice but i want him to see me and and think "yes, damn that's my girl!" im not sure if any of this actually makes sense to anyone, but if it does your advice would be greatly appreciated. i have a little over a week to figure all of this out.
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You have a valid concern, wanting to look your best for him. However you are overthinking this and making it way harder on yourself than it should be.
You know he already likes the way you dress. I am a female too and I know how even I often want something new to wear for anything in life I think of as momentous. So I would suggest that all you do is dress in the same style you always do, just perhaps a new tee or skirt if you can afford it. Better yet, ask some of your friends who dress similar and are same size if you can borrow a piece of clothing from them and tell them what you want it for. They'll be excited for you and get into it and want to loan you something he hasn't seen you in yet. Don't worry about makeup. If you decide you'd rather wear a sundress since its summer and if its hot, then a sundress is fine too. ]
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