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Little puzzled with a guy friend


Question Posted Wednesday May 17 2017, 8:12 am

How do you know if your friend likes you truly during jokes or falling for you. Is there any particular sign or how he treats you? We joke a lot and joking seems like flirting time to time, I suppose, I could be wrong. But my inner instinct tells me that he likes me and I've started to like him recently I'm starting to feel something. He does say he likes me during the joke while we're laughing so hard, I say likewise but I don't know if he means anything or just I like you as friend. Cheers

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Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday May 17 2017, 11:30 pm:
If you are open to discovering if the two of you could both do well as being more than friends, then all you need to do is ask using that term. "You know, we've been doing really well as just friends together. It makes me wonder if the two of us could be more than friends. What do you think?"

This is the best non threatening way to give him a chance to say yes or no without it feeling awkward for him because you asked for his opinion. This part is crucial. If you don't ask, you won't get any answers you want from saying the first part. But once you ask his opinion, he knows you are expecting him to say something. So he will go either one way or the other. If he feels some romantic feelings towards you, then this is his chance to go for it without making any commitment to being your boyfriend as this is only a trial thing. ITs his chance to date you in a romantic capacity without having to come out and say he likes you that way. However if he sees you more platonically like a sister, no romantic/sexual attraction, then he will be quick to say no it wouldn't work because he doesn't feel that way about you.

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