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Guy keeps singling me out?
So Im a girl and I'm 17 years old and I have known this guy since I basically started school I've known him for 10 years, I have liked him on and off for years and he knows and he's liked me before. But not recently have we liked each other. We are in our last year of high school and we have been put in a group together, this has made us talk again and its like we are good friends. But my feelings are coming back for him... but I don't know if he will like me back again but recently he has walked up to me and said Hey (my name) then talks to me or goes (my name) can you believe this just happened. Like I'm surrounded by my friends but he's not bothered with talking with everyone just me and he keeps using my name and he always looks me dead in the eyes like he is only focusing on what I'm saying and he always tries to get a seat by me. What do these things mean?
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He obviously likes you. This is common body language. We don't consciously think about it, its just a human instinct that one acts on subconsciously without being aware. If a person seeks you out and always tries to be near you, they like you. If a person leans towards to when you are talking, it shows they are genuinely interested in what you have to say and like you. If seated or standing, the persons foot or both feet are pointed towards you, they like you. If you watch for and catch him copying some of your movements, (called mirroring) he likes you. People tend to unconsciously copy the movements of the person they like such as if you cross your legs while seated, he may move his leg up on the other leg, of if you tuck your hair behind an ear, he might do the same to himself or something close like scratching his eaer. This is mirroring. Sounds like you are already pretty good friends. If you want to try for more than friends, heres what to say: "Hey, we've been doing great as friends for a while here. It makes me wonder if we might do just as good if it were something more than friends? What do you think?"
This is not asking point blank if he'll date you so it is not so scary for a guy to answer. If he is interested in dating you, this is his chance to ask since he now knows you are open to trying it. If not interested that way and only a friend, he will say something here too to head you off at the pass before you might develop deeper feelings for him.
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