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Dating someone just for financial reasons.
I am 25 yr old gay male. I have been in a relationship for 7 years now with someone who is 44. I find that I am not really happy anymore and I cannot just take off and break up w/him because my parents house has no room/ and I haven't been able to keep a job the past 5 years I went through 20+ jobs!!! I am in therapy and taking meds for anxiety/adhd and even thought several times I am bi polar but doctors said I do not display enough signs..I am truly just staying here for financial reasons and it feels everyday is a rut.. I do work 2x a week but that is not enough money to move out!! I also fear he will just move on very quickly and forget about me for the rest of his life.. I do respect him and appreciate everything he does for me but I have become so dependent on him... A lot of the chemistry is gone too..Any advice would be appreciated...
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Hate to tell ya, but it sounds like you're gonna have to grow up and learn to be independent. Its tough I know, but you should use this time to really look at what you'd have to do to be on your own. Right now he's not kicking you out, but eventually he will get tired of it and move on, especially if you're not together anymore. Use this time wisely, otherwise you might end up in you parent's couch.
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