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How can i find peace?
I was in a relationship on 15th Oct/2015 that it lasted only two month, it began with difficulties because of our mutual friends were in love with us, but somehow we got through it I sorted things out with my best friend but he didn’t and they fought and didn’t talk for a while anyways….I know it’s a short time to fall in love and still feel broken inside but it is the truth that till now I’m suffering from heartache, maybe it was because I lived so much details with him and the feelings were real.. I still miss him and the pain is still there like it was the first day.
ps. We were friends for a year before the relation..
I thought maybe if I get away for a little while some time by myself will sort my thoughts and finally be in peace with the reality, but it’s getting worse I feel like someone is squeezing my heart the pain is all there and somehow I was just escaping to face it and now I have no choice but to face them, he’s far away and maybe I won’t see him ever again but I still don’t know what happened I still have questions that I don’t know their answers and answers that I’m afraid what their actual questions would be..
I think if I know the answers to my questions then maybe somehow I’ll be finally be in peace and begin to accept the reality but how??? Talking to mutual friends? I don’t think so ,,talking to him? I think he got over me long ago and I don’t have the guts to talk to him.. it’s just after all we’ve been through to hold on to each other all the sacrifices we’ve made all the difficulties we’ve been through I couldn’t imagine the end would be like this, I’ll be a liar if I say that I don’t want him back but the reality is so bitter that I can’t even change it.
I just want to be OK I want to be in peace..HOW??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Write a letter to him (without sending it) explaining all of your feelings, questions and concerns. Then write another letter "from him" in response to your letter and make it as you would like it to be. Full of understanding and love. (but of course, he won't say that he'll come back to you if that was one of your questions.) But instead, say that he said something that would be satisfactory to you as to why he can't be with you. Make it as perfect response to your original letter as possible, so that you feel good and are satisfied with it. It would also provide closure.
I know it sounds weird, but the mind works in strange ways. If you read that response as if its really from him, the mind will believe it. At least to the point where you might be satisfied with how things ended and you no longer have to dwell on what could have been. Hope this helps.
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