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I have a close friend that is well attracted to beautiful women. He is not that open about his feelings but he keep on throwing lines that makes me feel confused about what he feels about me. He keeps on drawing me in and then pulling me out.I am not that beautiful and he has someone to whom he keep on chatting with. Should I ignore this or not?
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I am assuming you are a female then? Unless gay and you're a man. I will answer based on my first impression. Some guys who want to get close to a female will tend to want another females opinion to help understand women and help meeting them if single. If they don't have a sister they feel comfortable talking to or female cousin, they may turn to a female friend, someone to be what's called their 'Wingman"
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Although they are considering another man the guys wingman, often it is another female, one they like as a best friend but don't feel the chemistry for romance with. A female can give him the best insight with other females.
I am not sure about the lines you are talking about if these are lines he is using to meet other girls or lines he is using on you. Maybe he is trying to find out something. Maybe he'd like to know how you feel about him and whether you'd welcome any advances from him or whether he is afraid to ask you to help him get a girl he wants and it isn't you. Most guys would hate to ask that question outright because of fear of hurting the female friends feelings.
You also state you are not beautiful. Most people don't measure up to the false idea of beauty that we all were raised up seeing in media all our lives. So we gauge a persons appearance in comparison to what is the "IN" style of beauty at this point in history. In the past, it has changed over and over again to be anything from big boned to anorexic looking or small chests with poochy stomachs as the raving beautys of their time.
So you first have to realize that most people will decide on their own at some point in life what they find more attractice. It doesnt mean the other is ugly, just not quite what floats your boat. For instance, I like brunettes with long hair in men. But there are many other men who are equally good looking.
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