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27 yearvold virgin!
I know thisay seem odd but iam 27 years old and still a virgin my boyfriend of 1 year wants to have sex but i am scared because i dont want a baby right now that's why i have waited so long. He dosnt know iam a vigin either unless ypu consider the time my dad molested me when i was 3. How fo i go about telling him i am still a virgin at my age with consentual sex?
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Start with the truth and tell him that you aren't ready and haven't been. Mention the family history and any hangups and the desire not to become pregnant accidentally.
It's about you and if you aren't ready to go down this road in a relationship yet or with him personally that's okay. He has to respect it if he loves you. The one thing that could come out of this is a healthy dialogue with him on sexuality and the eventual feeling secure and ready. I would say right now to tell the truth, relax and wait over time.
Age doesn't matter 27 or even 40 or whatever age if you weren't and aren't ready at any point in life or haven't experienced sex there's nothing wrong with you. One day you will feel confident and know it's the right time and right partner.
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