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I think he's doing this on purpose
Dragonflymagic,
If you're the columnist I remember, you're somewhat versed in actual magick. If so, I need your help. I'm 27/f; guy in question is 30 or so.
Back in June, I got sucked into a... well, kind of a whirlwind romance with someone I shouldn't have, after breaking up with my boyfriend. This guy was versed in magick and struck me from the first day we met as quite powerful. My magick is untrained and somewhat uncontrolled (which is something I know I need to work on, but I have no idea how).
I don't know if I'm doing this, or if he is, but for the past few weeks he's shown up in my dreams, over and over again, no matter what my dreams have been. Last night in my dreams I ran into his arms and cried, and we kissed, and he comforted me, saying "it's okay," and "shh," and "it's over, baby," (as in, my reasons for crying - in my dream I missed him terribly).
Here's the big problem. I'm back together with my boyfriend. Bf is a wonderful guy, we love each other, we want to eventually get married; he's moving in soon, and consciously I have NO remaining feelings for this guy. I want him to get out of my head, and quit messing with my dreams (because I do believe he can do it - he's done it before). The couple of times I've been lucid enough in my dreams, I've called to my protector (who I know as Loki), who's been able to chase him away, or at least distract my mind away from him...
I don't know.
I don't know if this is even possible, what I think is going on. This is why I need your help. I'm quite open to any and all recommendations you might have as far as what to do to make this stop... it's starting to get to me.
Thank you immensely for any help you can offer.
<3
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Actual magick is nothing more than focusing ones intentions on what they want.
What you are experiencing is what people know of as a soul tie. So how is it formed?
When we have a sexual experience, our brains produce dopamine, the same chemical that is described as the “feel good” chemical of the brain. It also present in addictions like gambling, drugs. This dopamine is why in some cases, having sex can help get rid of a headache, making you feel better.
I had an experience shortly before I got ready to leave my ex for good. I didn't know any of this, but since I knew how to hear from God, my angels or spirit guides, telepathically, He brought this to my attention. I felt silly but went through with what I was told.
Soul ties are like a long strong cord attaching two people together. I was given a mental picture of end of a rope entering both of us at mid range, like the sacral chakra or solar plexus. If you’ve had sexual encounters with someone you're no longer with, even consensual or forced, there is most likely a lingering soul tie that needs to be dealt with otherwise you’ll forever be plagued with thoughts, dreams, feelings and even actions that are unwanted. Forced sex encounters because, although rape and sexual abuse is not a feel good experience, our brains still produce chemical reactions and our soul can still be tied to someone who has abused us.
I had a vision from God, showing me and hubby and a cord attached to both of us. I was then handed a large pair of scissors and told that if I truly wanted this break from my husband, that I would have to visualize in my mind, taking that pair of scissors and cutting the cord in half at which point any remaining cord vanished. Notice that in this vision, I was the only one taking action, it does not require anything from him.
I do believe that spirits and souls can reach out to us in dreams. Usually this is a visit from a loved one who passed to let you know they are alright. But there is no purpose for any other soul to be in our dreams. But the chances of the other person intentionally wishing to disturb your dreaming every night is more unlikely and whats more likely is that it is more generated by your mind due to dopamine.
I would try the visualization of cutting that cord. If you still see him coming into your dreams, try this for getting lucid dreaming to work where you can take control of your dreams. My husband told me about this one. Haha, I 've personally only had it work for me once, not because it doesn't work but because I am undisciplined in this. When in your dream, tell yourself to look at your hands. I remember raising my hands to look at them. The next step is looking from your hands to look at what you are dreaming and take control of what happens next in dream. You could then tell him he isn't welcome and order him to leave and order yourself to awaken. If you feel better asking for your angels or Loki to guard and protect your mind from an invasion of this guy, I am sure they will. But you have to ask. When it comes to a ny being of a spiritual nature, they don't tend to butt in, see a need and just fill it, unless your angels have to save your life from imminent death, God, angels, etc. are waiting for you to approach first and give them their marching orders so to s peak. Let me know if I can help with anything else or write me for any clarifications you may need. Happy Thanksgiving
Hope this helps.
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