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I like this guy that goes to my school!
So I like this guy that goes to my college who is a lot older than me I am 27 and he is 40. Would it make me look desperate if I asked him for his number?
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I'm not sure if I'm the right person to ask this question off. I am old enough to be your father and he is old enough to be your older brother.
TO answer your question: He may be flattered or he could be disinterested. As for being desperate I don't think so your asking for his number should just mean what it is meant to meant to mean. Please read on.
As your father I might question the virtue of what appears to be a May December infatuation. You can't call it a romance as you haven't met. On the other hand do you feel he would be open to dating someone so much younger than himself.
Factually age is but a number to record the years you spend on this earth. IT really has no other meaning then that. It is we that put meaning into the number especially when there is such a large cap between ages of two people.
Personally I do not have a problem with the age difference though I'm sure some others will friend of both your and his. Before you ask for his number think about what this age difference means in terms of what life with him would be like. You are young and most likely still like to party. He and his friends have done the party scene and now are more settled. A nice evening may be dinner at a friends house and a game of cards.
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