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why do people have a problem with me wanting to just slim and not muscular
i'm tired of people projecting on me that only muscular girls look good. i had a body fat of 40% and people would always tell me they loved my arms, when they were fat arms, not muscular. it's like people just want me to stay ugly and unthreatening and not look good while slim. unless people genuinely like the muscular look in girls. i personally don't and i'm justified in feeling that way. i don't tell girls who want to bulk up to stop, because slim looks better. it's a choice every girl makes and every girl is justified in wanting to look more muscular or just skinny. i spent so much of my life overweight and grew up with terrible self esteem and missed out on a lot as a child and teenager because of it. i like the more delicate slim look and no, it doesn't mean i desire to have an eating disorder. i was overeating before, and not doing enough cardio. i wish i knew how easy weight loss was so many years ago.
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The correct answer is: Who cares what they think.
Its your body, shape it how you want. Good for you to make yourself look and feel better. Don't pay attention to the haters.
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