There is a guy at my college that i really like and have since before attending college together and he's just the most gorgeous guy i have ever come to know and we are nothing to each other at the moment but whenever he talks to a girl i freak out and get jealous and not because i feel intimidated because i know he doesn't like them and he's just such a friendly person but i can't help it, and i stalk him on social media trying to see the girls he associates with and i just can't deal with it and i want to express that i just don't want him to show attention to other girls because i feel that he's mine and he's no one else's and I've become so possessive but i can't say shit because he's not my man but then i think the girls should back off because he is?? i don't know how else to explain it because i am confused myself, but in simpler words he isn't mine but then again he is and i can't handle him talking to other girls.
You need to try to get out with other people and not obsess over one guy. If you can't get your feelings under control then you need to speak to a mental health professional before your feelings get even more out of control. I think you already realize that it isn't normal. Get some help before you do something you'll regret. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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