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First time getting fingered...
I'm 16 and I'm not typically a sexual person. Occasionally I masturbate but it's nothing too serious. I have a group of friends that I hang out with and we always go to parties. We got invited to this one girls birthday kick back thing. Meanwhile I was there I felt so weird I felt really horny. I had the urge to masturbate really bad. I was going to the rest room and I saw an old friend. I stopped to say hi to get my situation out of my mind for a bit. There we started talking and she was telling me she's a lesbian. I didn't really care until she kissed me! I felt so weird about it but it felt so normal to kiss her back. She asked me if I've been with a female before and I haven't been with a male or female. I told her that and she asked if I would let her touch me. I said sure but I felt nervous... She fingered me and sucked on my nipples and she asked me if I liked it and I was just trying to be negative about it and say I didn't feel anything. I feel weird to think I might be attracted to girls more. The more I denied that I liked it the more she'd tell me I was soaking wet and I knew I defiantly did like it but I don't want to be judged of liking females :(
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I would not worry about being attracted to females. This was your first sexual experience and you body reacted to what was being done to it not the sex of the person doing it to you. Fact of the matter is most people have their first sexual experience with someone of the same sex. This is true of both boys and girls.
This is called sexual experimentation and is perfectly normal for a teenager. You're not gay or bisexual. While you may not realize why you allowed her to do this because in the back of your mind you knew what worried you the most about sex could not happen with her. In no way could you get pregnant by her.
Don't be so fast to put a label on yourself. Enjoy being a teenager and enjoy experimenting with your sexuality.
TO be honest I doubt you friend is truly a lesbian. IF she were she was born that way and you would have seen it in her long before this. It is possible like you some girl did to her what she did to you and now she thinks she is a lesbian. If I am right she is no more a lesbian then you are. When your ready, when the right boy comes along, one you trust. You will allow him certain liberties. When you find a boy you really trust and truly have feelings for you will give that boy your virginity.
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