Question Posted Wednesday February 24 2016, 1:37 pm
I must not have explained it right. He does treat me like I'm important, but not completely in the way I've always imagined me being treated. I don't want to try to change how he is, I just want to care less and be happy with the effort he does put in because I truly love him.
I think you have to realize that he is not perfect and that although he may not have all the qualities you imagined your partner to have. Or doesnt treat you exactly how you want he does treat you right and that is huge!
As for not caring about stuff that bothers you, if it is not a big deal try to forget about it by awitching thoughts to something else as soon as you start to think of it.
However.. if these things are current or oftenly happining that you dont like what hes saying/doing etc. I would advice you to talk to him about it. Because if you dont talk to him about whats bugging you it could grow into bigger worse issues.
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