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Sadie Hawkins Dance
Hey, warning in advance there might be a lot if questions in this.
Anyways, I'm a freshman and I've seem this cute guy in the hallway. I feel kik he looks a me but that could just be my imagination. I don't know amything about this boy. I don't know his name, age, grade... ANYTHING! But I know there's this guy I always see him with is friends with my friend and I was wondering should I ask her to get info on him? Should I just go up to him myself? Or should I just leave him alone? He doesn't look like a junior or a senior but he might just be short. Also, do you think it's okay to go to Sadie's alone?
Sorry for all the questions, I just wanted to know! Thanks!
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I know girls often go to dances alone, my daughters went with a group of girlfriends who had no partners. The only problem when its not an open dance but one where the girls ask the boys out, there aren't likely to be any single guys showing up since they weren't invited by a girl...that's the way those dances usually work.
I will mention now that if you face your fears of going up and talking to a guy you don't know, you'll find that other than those initial moments, the fear usually disappears quickly after you start doing that which scares you.
If still too scared to approach him first, you have a good in, with the guy friend of his who is friends of your friend. Wait til the guy is alone and then just walk up and say, "Hi Bill, I am Lori. You're friends with my friend Mandy. I was wondering if you could do me a favor perhaps. I've been noticing this guy you hang out with. Is he dating anyone that you know of? I ask because I'd like to ask him to the dance but I've never met him, don't know his name and so thats awkward to walk up to a stranger and ask him to dance. So, if he's single, I was hoping that sometime when you are next to him, I could come up to you two and greet you and you greet me and introduce me to him as Mandys friend and then introduce me to him. I'd appreciate that a lot."
I dont think he's refuse. Guys are lots like girls when it comes to noticing the opposite sex and trying to play match maker for their friends however they tend to be really big teasers when a friend is interested.
I dont suggest having your friend go talk to her friend first, there could be important key words forgotten that aren't what is told back to you and could change the meaning of his response. Its best you do this yourself. Even at your age, I didn't like it when a guy was too afraid to talk to me and sent friends to ask me questions. It meant he was too wimpy for me, I liked a more confident guy. I know its common at your age to do so, but learning to find the info you want on your own is much better.
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