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So I have always prided myself on my oral abilities but I need advice and need it fast I need to know of some new ways to give my man head and spice thing up for us some things that will help me push my man over the edge
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The only new thing I can think of doesn't involve your mouth but hand. I once had a very sexual female friend who showed me with a dildo how she would shake or vibrate her whole arm and hand while holding a guys penis. She says it gave her guy lots of pleasure in a different way than the usual up and down motion by feeling like a real vibrator. I tried and its not easy and not everyone likes the same stuff. Although I was able to master it too, my new husband wasn't impressed.
Really, its up to your guy to communicate things he'd like you to try.
If for example he has a hard time coming when you do this since you said, "help me push my man over the edge", I want to mention that for many men, oral sex done on him is more a mind thing and so it may take them subconsciously getting to a point in familiarity with you and how close his heart is tied to yours, his trust, etc. before he can come easily no matter what you do. With 2nd husband, other than the first time I did it for him and he came, we had years of difficulty. He enjoyed that kind of attention but didn't come that way. He wanted to, at least his conscious mind wanted it, but subconsciously after an ex wife who didn't like to give oral and past girlfriends who found it gross or wouldn't swallow, his subconscious just didn't feel deserving of such a wonderful experience. Once time went by and I kept up giving this kind of attention, he got to a place where it didn't matter what I did, theres always a release now.
Try the difference in feeling for him by sucking on an icecube right before to make mouth really cold, or something really hot, even a strong peppermint right before can often be felt by the guy if he likes that kind of sensation. Other than that, it doesn't always have to be deep throating or a wonderful acrobatic tongue, but mix things up using the hand for an up and down on the shaft while sucking the tip, circliing it or even playing with the slit using tip of your tongue as if trying to enter it. Other than all this, its a matter of perhaps a trip to sex toy shop and seeing what there is he may want you to try on him.
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