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Situation drama
So this is my story...Iv dated this guy for a few months in high school (2012) we then broke up and got back together a few months after then but then broke up again (2013) Last year april i askd him if i can add him on facebook cause i have a new account and he said yes and since then almost everyday we spoke to each other we started hanging out once or twice on a monthly basis so we have been seeing eachother for a year and 6 months now i thought there was hope that we would get back together again,everything was just perfect it felt like we were meant to be..a few months ago in august everythng just suddenly changed he stopped speaking to me,and only shows up and replies when he wants to..it was his birthday recently 31oct and i texted him but he didnt reply so then i phoned him to wish him..since then i havent heard from him,i texted him monday and tuesday asking why hes so quiet,i dont hear frm hm anymore and then asking him if i can see him soon and then i tried phoning him but he didnt pick up so i texted hm making up an excuse saying it wasnt me and then texd hm asking if he got my msgs bt then he ddnt reply so i tld hm sorry bout all those msgs i just wntd to talk to him but il leav hm alone now..i still havent heard anything from him,he probably never even read the msgs and just deleted it cause hes always online i just dont exist to him anymore..about 2wks ago he told me he likes being around me he just dont like how clingy iv gotten...its not that im clingy i just wana knw why hes acting this way,we use to speak almost everyday but now i t feels like all i ever do is annoy him and be clingy i told him it felt like it was the last time im ever gona see him so he said no he dont think so unles its wat i want so i said no i dmt want our friendship to end so he said it wont happen he is just full of shit lately and hes not keen on clingy...But now i dont know anymore cause it feels like i lost him and everything is over because i was bombardin hm with all those texts..iv decided to stay away though and not contact him anymore..i dont think i will ever hear from him away..or do you hink if i keep my distance long enough he will mayb show up again..is there still hope for us to be friends and to speak again..do u think hes silence is his way of saying leave him alone..i dont know what i did wrong and he dont want to tell me why hes acting so all he says is that hes not keen on people anymore ..i need advice on what to do and how to handle this situation i havent textd him for 2 days now im just staying away..do you think he will msg me again? im just so scared cause its all i ever think about please help i ddnt mean to come off as clingy and texting hm constantly,im sorry :( i just miss him and the way how things use to be, but i gues iv pushed and chased him away because of it
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It sounds like something happened between the time you spoke to him all the time and he stopped speaking to you. And maybe he doesn't want to talk to you about it. You have every right to ask any question you want but ultimately it's his choice to answer those questions. He has asked you for space, so at least you know he has acknowledged your concern. Friendship is a two way street and if he has told you he doesn't want to be in communication every day, and you two are just friends, then you should leave it at that until he is ready to want more. I can't tell you whether or not you should have hope because I don't know what's going through his mind. All I can say, is if you still want him as friend in you life, continue to show him you're there for him in the way he likes it. He told you he liked to spend time with you, so I wouldn't say you've pushed him away or chased him but remember, it has to be a two way effort, not just you doing all the work.
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