I've (17f) always believed in staying a virgin until marriage, however, I still would like to be able to pleasure my boyfriend, we have been together for a while now but neither of us have gone past the point of making out and that was also with each other. any ideas/(dare i say?) techniques????
In Britain and Europe it is said that some of the girls that wish to remain virgins but also wish to please their boyfriends allow them anal sex.
Anal sex is a learned skill that is not without some pain for the female until she is accomplishes at it. Proper precautions need be taken as the male MUST WEAR A CONDOM. The anal canal is full of bacteria that could cause him a of harmful infections in his urinary tract, bladder or kidneys if a condom is not worn. Condoms also protect against many of the STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus.
I am not recommending anal sex though it is an alternative to vaginal sex if you chose to allow him. If you do then I suggest you search the web for the best position and how to do so. Also make sure you use a good lube and plenty of it.
Your boyfriend must also agree before hand that if you say stop, pullout or no; to do so without question. You must trust him to do so if you are going to allow him anal sex. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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