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am i pregnant


Question Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 2:01 pm

i and my guy were sleeping nude day before yest.i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me. there was a gap of 1-2 mins or so between both the things. and his hand felt dry to me. al this hapened aftr my periods gt ovr. i hd a normal 6 days period and on the 8th day this happened. so if he had sperms on his hand by any chance then is there a possibility of me being pregnant? im having fever from yst. and my cycle usually is 32 days. sometimes even more than that. am i pregnant? please. im really scared. also his penis was near my vagina.. like 6cms away from my vagina. his penis touched my inner thighs and not vagina.

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Dragonflymagic answered Saturday October 17 2015, 2:53 pm:
You mentioned fever and illness is one of the things that will delay a period. The second main cause of delayed periods is stress. In girls, often the stress is worry about possibly being pregnant. As you know, other than use of condom when having intercourse (penis in vagina sex) there is a lot of time when precum or an ejaculation of his is not going to be in a condom.

Luckily, sperm does not last long outside a wet moist environment like the inside of his body or yours. It takes lots of fluid for the sperm to swim or travel in to get anywhere. So if your hand or his was dry and had none of his wet cum on it, then it wasn't transferred quick enough to your vagina. Also, any on your thigh isn't close enough for it to travel to get safely inside you. Only if he had precum on his tip or wet cum all over his penis when it probed at your lips or entrance is there a slight change of a viable sperm making it in. Its too early to test for pregnancy, but just for peace of mind, or in case you may have forgotten parts of what happened and he may have been lots closer to your entrance than you remember, if its 2 days ago, you can still take the Morning after pill, or emergency contraception available at drugstores, Just ask pharmacist. No prescription needed. But you;d want to take it immediately, today. And then you don't have to worry. For the future, its best that you go to your doctor or even Planned parenthood for birth control. Make sure to get proper instruction and really pay attention as to to how to use properly as any deviation from what your instructed, you may just still get pregnant. For example, some are not effective immediately like the pill which needs to build up in your system. SO if you took your first pill and had sex the next day, you very well may become pregnant if its during your fertile time when you're ovulating. I recommend getting some of kind of birth control and staying on it, no matter your relationship status, like with a boyfriend, in between boyfriends, cus you never know when you might meet someone and want to go for it that same day.

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