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being disvirgin but not bleeding
am 18 from lagos, somehow confused,av never had sex before in my life until my boyfriend inserted is penis inside me,although it very hard for him to penetrate bt after penetrating,blood dint come out,does that mean am no longer a virgin?
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Not all women bleed their first time, I didn't for one. And I was a virgin. Hymens are elastic and can stretch to accomodate a man but like a rubber band pulled quickly out as far as it can go, theres the possibility of it snapping. I've done that as a kid playing with rubber bands, stretch too far too fast and it tears, breaks and snaps back to sting your fingers. So if a guy goes really slowly and takes his time, it may stretch without tearing. Without tearing, there is no bleeding. The other stretching can come from using tampons or may fingers on yourself or toys in masturbating. And lastly, there will always be a few women who've never used toys but are a bit larger or more stretched out naturally like myself.
So no blood is as normal as show of blood. the only thing that means you are no longer a virgin is once a man has been inside you.
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