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my sex life
im 12 and me and my boyfriend are having protectected sex he fingers me and my parents don't know im at his house many days and weve been together 2 years my parents still don't even now were goin out amongst many other things we enjoy ourselves when were togetter I LOVE HIM AND HIS DICK!! AND HE LOVES ME AND MY VAGINA he tried to put a barbies foot up my tooch and my vaginamite hurt I let him do it though! things are starting to get weird and out of hand BUT I LOVE HIM SOOO..... MUCH A 2 YEAR RELATIONSHIP IS A LONG TIME !like I said I love him! he makes me happy WHAT DO I DO IM CAUGHT IN A CROSSFIRE OF LOVE PAIN AND ENJOYMENT pls help me what do I do????? :) :) B-) ;0 ;0
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Although you're 12 and I don't really think you should be having sex yet, if he's doing something that you don't like, tell him that you don't like it. When you have sex, both people need to be comfortable with what's going on. If you don't want to use barbie dolls as sex toys, then tell him not to use a barbie doll as a sex toy.
Now that I've answered your question, if you have a boyfriend who wants to stick a barbie inside of you, then I don't think you should be involved with him. Being in love doesn't mean that you compromise who you are or that you sacrifice your comfortableness just to make him feel good.
I will be honest and say that a red flag went off in my head when you mentioned that you were 12 years old, but not once did you mention how old he was and that you said that your parents don't know that you're dating him. This leads me to believe that this guy is probably much older than you, and if I'm wrong I apologize. But you sound a bit disillusioned as to what love is. It's one thing to really like someone because they're sexy and good in bed, but it's another thing to truly be in love with someone just because of who they are and how they make you feel emotionally, not just physically. In my opinion I think that you might be confusing "He makes me feel good (physically)" with "He makes me happy (emotionally)".
You are 12 years old and you've been in a relationship for 2 years with this guy which means that you started dating at age 10. I have never met any boys who are concerned about sex at age 10 which just makes me think even more that you are involved with a guy you're not supposed to be with. I am thoroughly convinced that what you are feeling isn't love, but the thrill of someone older being attracted to you for the first time.
If I were you, I wouldn't want to be in this relationship because you'll have plenty of time when you're older to think about sex in a more mature way. When you stop thinking about sex as "I love his dick, he loves my vagina, let's smash", then you'll know that you are mature enough for that experience.
I do realize that there is a chance that I could be wrong and that this guy could be your age because who else but a little boy would want to stick a barbie doll up a girl's "no-no place"?
Overall, just be safe and make smarter decisions. Talk to your parents more and start a conversation with them about LOVE, SEX, and PROTECTION. You may be thinking that it's embarrassing and uncomfortable to talk to them about those kinds of things, but that's what they are there for. They've gone through what you have gone through and they have the years of experience to prove it. Talk to your parents and EDUCATE yourself. Being able to have those kinds of conversations and establishing that level of open trust is what will prepare you for sex, and at your age you need to be emotionally and mentally prepared for sex. Save the physical preparation for when you are much older.
Hopefully this helped you and hopefully I said what you needed to hear. Also, if this question was just a fluke and you're some random person who just likes to come on here because you want a laugh, please stop because there are people who actually need help. If this isn't the case, my apologies.
Andrew
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