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Is it the right time?
Hey so my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship going, we skype every night and we do truly love each other. We've been dating for about 1 month, it was actually our anniversary yesterday. We drop hints about sex in our convos a lot but we don't really talk about it full time. I was just wondering, is it the right time to ask her for nudes? If not, should I and when? Thanks a lot
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I don't think you should ask her for nudes. Instead you should kind of bring the idea up to her in one of your conversations. I mean you're already talking about sex so why not just slip in the "nudes" discussion. The reason why you shouldn't directly ask and say, "Can I have some nudes?" is because you don't want to scare her off or make it seem like you had ulterior motives the entire time. Instead, you should bring up the idea of sending nudes back and forth so that way you can sort of gauge how she would feel about the whole thing because the main thing. You don't want her to feel pressured to do something that she might not want to do. So ask her how she feels about sending nudes and then go from there.
Now that we got that out the way, be careful when you send nudes because those pictures don't go away, especially if you have an iPhone. If and when you send a nude, don't put your face in the picture. And try not to send a whole bunch because you don't want a million different pictures of your "equipment" floating around the internet or worse...on someone's phone. A few pics here and there over the course of a few months should be fine. Also, make sure that she's not a minor.
I hope this helps.
Andrew Horton
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