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The relationship between my crush and I.
Me and my crush are both 15 years old and in the same year. We started to know each other when joining the same club in our school and we interaction every now and then. Before I got out of a relationship a month ago, my crush would play with my hair and tease me now and then. After the breakup, he would do things like touching my face, hugging me from behind, playing with my hair, once he found out I finish lunch early and hang out at a spot alone, he would start finishing his lunch early and "happens" to be hanging out at that spot too. I never see him flirting with other girls lile that. But when there are people around and he happens to see me, we would stare at each other then he proceeded to ignore me, texting with each other doesn't go well because he'd ignore my messages. Today, he texted me and we started off having a really sweet conversation, then I mentioned a very dirty as a joke and he started to talk really dirty to me. I joked dirty with him for a while then tried to change the subject, but he kept talking dirty to me. He said things like "Ima pound your *****" or ask if he could touch my boobs then said he was joking. He also told me he was going to masturbate to some of his pretty girl-friends. I just want to know whether he likes me or he's just trying to get into my pants. I know it's long but I'd really appreciate it if you van give me some advice.
Thank you in advance.
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Alright. Hey there sweetie.
My mom always says: men go only as far as you let them go. So the fact that you initiated a dirty topic, even as a joke, means that you let him think it was okay to talk about that.
Seeing as you both are young, he's not mature enough to just take the joke and go back to the sweet subject. He saw the opportunity to "release the hormones" and jumped for it. Honestly, there may be a chance that he does like you but not for a serious relationship in the future.
The fact that he couldn't go back to the normal conversation, means that he either was consumed by hormones or he just wants you for one thing. A young man who likes you for serious motives, would respect you enough to let go of the subject and not to bring up those topics unless you are ready.
Keep your eyes open! Be safe.
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