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Hey Dragonflymagic
Hey thanks for that answer that really helps...The colleges that were attending to is not that far from each other, Its an hour drive or commute to get to her school from mine. Also our houses is not far from each other,maybe a 20mins.
How do I know that she likes me back? Because I just dont get a hint from her.
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Girls and guys are pretty much the same when it comes to liking someone. They will find opportunities to talk to each other, find excuses to bed near each other, stare at each other alot and smile and greet each other.
If you think a smile can't be a sign she likes you for example, look at it this way, if on at least a very surface level (since you don't know each other much more) she didn't find you attractive, she would not do anything to encourage you to seek her out? Same goes for you. Think of a girl you are not attracted to her looks, you don;t go out of your way to smile and greet her by name each time you see her...because she would suspect you had a crush on her and that might encourage her to approach you and ask you out on a date...and you don't want that to happen. Signs can be subtle like that at first. If when you walk up to stand close to her, she doesn't step back to re-create a distance between you, then she finds you attractive.
The next natural step after finding each other attractive is to learn if there are enough things in common between you to sustain a friendship because both being best friends and being sexually attracted are the two most important things to any long lasting healthy happy relationship.. I would know, I've had both, the bad relationship with ex husband first and the great one with those important two things with my current husband. Best thing you can do is let her know you are very interested in her based on everything you've already seen and would like to get to know her better to see if there's a chance for a relationship, friendship and more. the reason you ask now is because you'll both be busy at different schools and you want to know if she's interested as well so you both can start meeting and continue to plan meetups even while in college. Hinting at something like this isn't worth it. Girls will always 2nd guess what you really meant and not be sure. Best to be direct in a way that doesnt put her too much on the spot. If she says she only wants to be friends, go for it and give her a few months to see if she develops any deeper feelings beyond friendship as she may be shy and afraid to date if she feels you expect some confession of her adoration right now. Good luck!
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