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ok so the thing is I have been talking to this boy name dyllon for ab 2 months now and he has had a girlfriend ever since but now I have a boyfriend but he broke up with his girlfriend because he felt that she didn't like him so he wants to date someone who likes him and now he wants to date me but I date a boy name austin, but I just recently started talking to him. me and the boy dyllon tell each other I love you all the time, but I just don't know what to do! but the thing is, the guy dylllon goes to a different school and me and Austin go to the same school. help me pleaseš©?
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I assume you're young and not old enough to drive to go visit the other. So far it seems more like crushes on boys and yes you can have more than oe at once. I did, 4 guys I had crushes on all at once.
When we are young and just starting dating, its something new we need to get used to and the best way is by just dating. But we make mistakes more from not knowing any better. Much like its hard for many people who have never driven a car to be able to start one, take off and drive as if they've done it for years. It takes practice, and during the time of practicing, fender benders can occur or worse. Thats like getting hurt in a relationship, being dumped, someone cheating on you. Its all part of growing up.
Advise for you:
Do not try to date someone unless they are free to date.If he has a girlfriend, wait til he's free to let him know you'd like to do but you must be single also.
If its not dating necessarily but having boys as friends that you want, then you can have as many as you like. You are not makeing a commitment to be a girlfriend as in romantic couple.
It is okay to date several guys at the same time, but only for as much time as it takes you to decide which one is better for you, which you like more. Older people do this. Lots of young guys do this and piss off girls. The difference where it can work is if you want to go out with a guy but you aren't sure if you'll stay with him for long is to let him know right up front that you aren't totally sure who you will end up choosing but right now you are dating to decide if a guy is someone with whom you want to become their girlfriend and you may accept dates from other guys at the same time until you make a commitment. Guys understand this, cus lots of them actually do this. Of course there are immature young guys who can't handle this, are territorial and get jealous and the younger the guy, the more chance he won't go for it. Older guys have no problem at all...I've done this. This sets the situation in your favor, you are not acting desperate to win him over a bunch of girls, but he has to be on his best behavior to win you because you are considering other guys.
So, end result here, I don't care if you date both Austin and Dyllon at the same time, or one at a time, just make sure neither has made a commitment to a girl asking her to be his girlfriend. Just because you see a girl hanging out with him alot does not mean she is his girlfriend. She could be a hopeful wannabe like yourself, or she may be just his best friend, no romance.
So ask the guy if he's single. If you see another girl in the equation, ask who she is to him. Once you have your answers, you ask him to go out with you, or you don't depending.
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