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Oh and we actually go to the same college also. I mean no matter what I know he's going to talk to me eventually because he told me to hold on to items Until he needs them. I really hope when he finally decides to talk to me its to talk about the relationship. Oh and by the way he's holding on to my items also until i need them. No lie i really miss him. Hope he misses me also. Sometimes i have this urge to just text or call him but i won't. It hard not talking to him but so far its been four days now and i'm actually getting use to not talking to him. I really love him and thats because he's my first and he's also my first serious relationship. Just hope he comes back to me That i'll keep praying for everyday.
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I can understand the awkwardness of the situation. And I know that it won't be easy for you. Seeing the man you love everyday and trying to suppress whatever it is you feel for him in order for you to show that you respect his wishes.
But you must. You must do this not just because you respect his wish, but because you must understand that you need self-respect as well. He must see that. People take people they have for granted. It happens all the time. And the ironic part? People only see other people's worth when they're gone.
I really wish I could tell you that it's going to be easy, but that would be a lie. I really wish I could give you a metaphorical sedative of some sort.
And it's just too crappy when someone says "hope for the best, fear the worst." That doesn't make sense at all.
I will give you some sort of principle I have been practicing for the longest time. But before that, let me tell you about myself. That way, you would understand why I have embraced this principle.
I'm a single father. I have a sixteen year old son. His mom died giving birth to him. All of that happened in December, 1998. (Imagine my Holiday that year.)
Here's what I've been practicing:
Never sweat on things you can never control. Only give effort to those things that you can. Because no matter what happens, you can only be the master of what you can embrace. Everything that spills out? It isn't yours to handle.
I do hope you will find peace. Right now, you would need that more than anything else.
Thank you so much for listening.
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