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re : confused


Question Posted Monday January 19 2015, 2:45 pm

He sent a message saying "hes sorry to put me through this" and I said that I'm there if he needs to talk to and he just said "sure".
Now I wonder if he wants to break up or not. Honestly, I don't feel a thing anymore for him.
I am expressive about what I feel.. But at least he can stop being cold in his messages. I've decided to wait until this weekend and see how things go... Other wise I am gonna move on.


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rainhorse68 answered Tuesday January 20 2015, 6:45 am:
I see. We can only offer help, we cannot force it on someone and make them take it. I can understand that you are pretty much at one with your emotions and feelings. Communicative. Comfortable about having them and talking about them. He surely is not. So one wonders if you'd ever really hit it off long term? Cool, off-hand responses and stone-walling could easliy kill off any feelings you may have had for him. You're doing all the emotional 'giving' and he doesn't even seem to respond, let alone return it, eh? Perhaps some girls might settle for that? Perhaps YOU never would? Don't let him kill off your loving heart and harden it towards others though, will you? It's a precious thing you know. And when it finds it's true mate you'll be wanting it all intact! If the relationship falls apart, I can't help feeling he stands to lose a lot more than you do. Honestly sweetheart. "Sure" is not really an appropriate answer to the way you reached out to him here, is it? XX

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