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love n cant let go
I lov my partner but we generally do nt understand each other.. due which we hav continues fights but we lov each other alot so what should I do
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I agree, if you cant even talk to each other then there isnt much hope because if he wont listen then how is he to ever know what is going on to be able to work on it.
If you both dont CARE enough to try to meet each other half way on this or TRY to understand each other then theres just no point in being together anymore. Your not "meant for each other" and for you own sanity you need to let him go. Things like this can cause years of heartache and frustration when you stay with someone long term that your not really happy with.
Dont short change yourself, you can do better and you deserve someone who WANTS the same things you do, like understanding.
good luck.
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The key to every good relationship is communication. If you both cant communicate there is not much you can do. If you are adults , I suggest sitting each other aside with no distractions and talking about whats going on. Go out somewhere romantic. Rekindle and find the reasons you both fell for each other in the first place. If this doesnt work , counseling should. Put as much effort into your relationship as you need to keep it from breaking apart. If you are kids .. life is too short and sometimes its time to let go and move on and do whats best for you. If you want, you can keep trying to make it work , but it might not. Just dont stress yourself. Your still young.
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Okay i know about this. Love sometomes makes you wonder if to stay or just go but if you guys love each other so much you all should be able to sit down and resolve the problems which causes the fights. Don't let anything destroy the love you guys have. The love is yours so only you guys can fix it. Fights don't cause themselves find the cause and fix them. You guys must have some kind of understanding to be in love so try and find the real problem whether it's trust or honesty etc.
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