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i like 2guys at the same time what do i do
13/f
ok i kinda think my relationship is getting a little boring and i like this kid who has only been at school for 2 weeks but he has a girl friend and hes friends with my enemy and she likes him too and im scared shes goin to tell him bad stuff about me cuz i kinda just made her and her bf break up and i think he likes me too but idk what to do or who to pick please help thank you
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
At your age, no one dates for long or sticks with one person long. You're just starting the dating process and learning about the opposite sex and how they act and how to understand them or even know the signs of whether someones interested. So here's some general rules to follow.
Only date one person at a date.
It is okay for girls to ask guys out.
Only ask guys out who are not dating anyone and are single at the time.
If you are not sure if a guy is dating a girl or just simply being friendly and talking to girls, then ask him first if he has a girlfriend.
Do not tell a guy you like him and want to date him if he's already dating a girl. If you can be patient, you'll get your turn because as most young teens, he likely won't date her longer than a couple weeks or couple months if he's lucky.
If right after a guy breaks up with your best girlfriend, you start dating him, be prepared to have an angry girlfriend.Girls get real possessive over boyfriends, and ex's. A better choice would be to mentally prepare your friend by telling her that you would like to date her ex boyfriend. Its up to you whether you decide to ask her permission or just go ahead and do it.
Remember, you can't "pick" someone unless they are free, so it sounds to me like you don't have an option right now of choosing between two single boys because you made it clear, one is dating but have no idea from what you wrote whether the 2nd one is or not.
So if both boys are dating right now, you'll just have to wait your turn.
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