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not sure what to do!
22/f
In an ldr for around 2 months now.My boyfriend is moody..he retreats into his cave.
I last spoke to him day before yesterday and he was all lovey dovey.
And yesterday he didn't reply to my messages and later when I asked him if he's busy, he said he's not but unhappy with his uni.
He moved there 2 months back. Things have been hectic for him I'm assuming.
He skypes often.Usually initiates it all the time.
Talks to me well and all that's there.
I do not like the fact that his mood swings get to me.
I asked him if hes unhappy with the relationship, he said not at all,and he had mood swings last week as well (so I asked him if it was me,he assured it wasn't)
So I dunno if this is a way of signalling that hes donw wit the relationship.
I am totally paranoid when it comes to this.
I asked him "if this changes things between us"
Him : no not the relationship
Me : it eventually would,if you stop talking to me.
Him : I wouldn't stop talking to u,my feelings for you haven't changed
I'm having a bad day.
What am I supposed to assume from this?
I'm confused!:(
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Hey sweetie. You need to calm down. If you had a bad day at school, work or at home you'd feel very annoyed or upset at the world. So it's okay for him to want to be alone. You need to grant him some space so he can get his schoolwork done and whatnot. Everyone needs "me time". There's a little phrase that goes : absence makes the heart grow fonder. Which is usually true. I don't think he's done with the relationship, he just needs to blow off some steam. It's normal. If you push him too much, he might snap at you and we don't want that so let him be.
Best of luck!
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