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This girl named Alexis is always looking at me and sometimes laugh at my jokes. Well this is giving me an idea that she likes me. Well im not sure if she does but if she does, i like her as well. My question is, how can i tell if she likes me? How can i test her to see if she likes me? I've been dreaming about her a lot lately and i would really want to know if she likes me. Please help me out
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Right now, those are good signs that she has an interest in you. Here's what you can do. Pay attention to her body language. Our subconscious mind will effect what we do with our bodies if attracted to someone. One thing we do when someone walk over and stands too close to us, that we don't like, we take a step or two backwards to re-create that space between us because we are reacting to their vibes or the chemistry. If she likes you, and you come to stand a bit closer than arms length away from her, she won't step back. So the reason to come stand up next to her is to talk to her. So you'll have to get the guts to do so. Talk about things related to school, same teachers, up coming events, don't ask closed questions, ones she can answer with yes or no or that's the end of the conversation. A question like, I watched a great horror movie this weekend, whats your favorite type of movie is good because she can't answer yes or no so that is open ended. Another thing people do if they like the other person is subconscious mimic the others action. So if your hand went up to scratch your head, she might follow that with raising her hand to do the same or tuck her hair behind her ear, if you reposition your legs while sitting, she would do the same action, it doesn't have to be the exact same position though. While sitting and talking, if interested, a person will tend to lean toward the other person while talking.
Another thing you can do if she doesn't move away from you is move on to flirting by touch, innocent stuff, like the pat on the shoulder to congratulate her, tap on the shoulder to get her attention, brushing your arm against her arm when sitting next to her, tucking her hair behind her ear, pretending to or picking an eyelash off her cheek. Being young, she may not be able to pick up yet on the flirting clues, but if you follow it up with telling her you'd like to hang out with her to get to know her better because you are interested in her or you like her, will get the message across. Thats the perfect time to ask her if she likes you too.
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